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Why does my mother?


I am 30 years old (for starters).
I've been staying with my mother for a short period of a month or so.
Every day my mother comes home from work and she (has the loudest voice) talks from the moment she gets home until the moment she goes to bed.

I go upstairs to hide, but she has such a loud voice that she stands at the bottomb of the stairs and you can hear her through the whole house.

Not only does she tell me things that I don't need to know (like why she did this, that and the other) she also talks to the cat, the walls, and 'objects'.

The TV has to be on from the moment you get home to the moment you go to bed. Its volume is at 50.

The worst part is that she belches, and farts really loud as she walks around. Then she shouts "excuse me".

My mother is 50 years old and she is educated. She has a masters degree in SOCIAL WORK!

Are these annoying things an attention seeking disorder?

Doubtful she is trying to make me move out this is a temporary situation and I have a move out date.

Also she has not always been this way, she was cuckoo when I was y ounger but not this bad.

The clue to this might be 'she was cuckoo when I was younger'. What do you mean by this? Being educated does not rule out mental illness. Many highly intelligent, educated people develop mental illnesses, my sister included.

Talking to inanimate objects a lot is not normal. We all talk to the TV occasionally, don't we, but this doesn't sound right. The TV may be so loud to drown out the voices in her head? Try to talk to her and see if she will open up about this. Could ask her if she has trouble hearing the TV, is that why it's so loud? Maybe she'll open up.

If you know of a dr. appt. she has in the future, you could call them and tell them your concerns before she gets there, or send the dr. a letter.

Doe she normally live alone when you are not staying with her? She may have formed this habits from having no one to talk to upon returning home. She, as a social worker must listen to everyone else's heartaches all day and once home needs to feel someone is listening to her. Try to open up a dialog with her, explain she doe snot need to shout- eventually let her now she needs to curb some of her other habits...

I'd say yeah she is def. seeking attention from you. Has she always done this, like when you were growing up? Maybe she just feels really comfortable and is acting like you guys are roomates? Maybe she is just trying to get you to move out?

Maybe the reason she is so loud is because she may have a slight hearing problem. Its nothing to do with a attention seeking issue. She was there before you arrived so techicnally you need to just shut the door and ignore her if thats a issue get your own place!

perhaps your mother is acting this way in order to make you move out. You wouldn't want to take friends/girlfriends back home to witness this sort of behaviour would you?

she is lonley! you should want to be there for her.

She probably likes your company.
If you do not like the way she is behaving, remind yourself that you will not be there much longer. It is her house and she can do whatever she pleases even though it may irritate you.
Best Wishes

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