Please read..........i really need help!?

I am 16 and i have an anger problem. When i get angry i have a hard time controlling myself. I hate my family and myself. I am angry more than not. I have mood swings everyday. I go from very happy to crying to yelling and sceaming in a matter of minutes, sometimes seconds. I don't show my parents any respect and i talk to them with evil/disrepectful voice. My family is falling apart because of my behavior. I think i have something wrong with me (like a mental disorder or something). I feel like i'm totally out of control, i have become a monster. I think my parents are about to give up on me. What do i do? Is something wrong with me? Am i depressed? I just really need some good answers.

You sound like a very intelligent person..You're analyzing your behavior very well..therefore, you need to do something about it..and quickly...you need to try to talk to your parents the way you wrote this question...or find someone else you can talk to about this problem..

You may be having anxiety problems and you can get help..please talk to someone about this..There is no reason for any person to be angry all the time..you can get over it and you have certainly made the right decision by trying to reach out to find help..You might want to talk to your family doctor first to get a referral to a counselor perhaps..but please do...take care

Well first of ll you are a teenager going through all kinds of things. You have so many things going on in your life all kinds of pressures and yet you are tying to establish your independence in the world. You do sound like you have an anger problem. You could even be Bi Polar. You could just need to talk to someone or you could really hae something wrong. I used to be like that when i was younger. I think i was much worse. I regret it now but at the moment i just couldn't stop. I have been diagnosed with depression. If you ever need to talk you can email me. I would be more than happy to listen.

mood swings changes are normal but when it happens in a matter of second that could be bipolar, I would go to a family doctor and see whats up. GOOD LUCK!!

All teenagers are difficult. If it's getting to the point where you are just IMPOSSIBLE to control, then get tested for bipolar disprder. Try looking here for answers

http://www.bipolar.com/

all teenagers go thru changes physically as well as emotionally and i think the emotional ones r the worst. i was the same way i fought and lied and snuck out all the time and at 16 i got kicked out. my parents offered to get me into counseling which i needed but i refused to go. i had to hit rock bottom before i straightened up i was homeless and pregnant. before u let that happen to u, get into counseling. if they havent offered it to u then ask them. if u geel like u cant ask them talk to ur school guidance counselor, they can help u and at least u can vent ur feelings instead of taking them out on ur parents. try biting ur tongue every once in a while and just responding to ur parents in a nice polite way (as hard as it is) and see what kind of changes come from just that simple little change. but most important get to a counsleor to help u.

When did you first start acting like this? Think carefully about the things that happened to you, especially any you might feel you had to hide.

And don't be afraid to ask your parents to help you find a psychological help, because if this is coming from inside your head, that's the way to discover it and figure out how to change it.

My sister goes through the same exact thing.

I've been though something very simmilar.

I think you should talk to someone. It doesn't have to be a therapist, but someone you trust, or sometimes better yet, someone who you don't know well but can vent everything to them if they are willing to listen, like a therapist. I've been in a mental hospital and have seen mulitple therapists, and none have helped me, because if I have told the truth, I would have been stuck there for many more years.
My sister tells me when she is out of the clear, she feels like a rabid animal or monster, and it can scare me. She tries to burn herself, she screams and cries, bangs her head against the wall. There is absoultly nothing funny about it, even though it may seem really comical. It scares people so much, and she can be so close to death.
I don't hate myself, but I do scream, cry. See a therapist. Try and get everything out of your head, at least on paper, and talk to someone. It sounds cliche, but GET IT OUT. I never thought I could be helped. But I talked to some people I love and trust, some strangers going through simmilar things, etc, and at that moment I felt relieved.
I hated my family so much, but now we talk a lot.
Therapy doesn't make you better. But it heals you, it doens't change you in any way, but just let everything out and get feedback. That's the best way.
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You should speak to your doctor about your concerns. If you think your behavior is abnormal (don't forget mood swings are common for teenagers) then speak to someone about it. If your doctor can't help, maybe you could try an anger management class? There are heaps of resources out there waiting for you to use them!

i think its a bipolar disorder