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Vasectomy in a younger man? |
I'm 23 and I am somewhat considering a vasectomy. I'm fairly certain that I never want to have kids. I have heard that some doctors recommend against having one at an earlier age, I guess because it's permanent and I may change my mind. It doesn't sound like you are 100% sure you don't want children. Any good doctor will recommend that you don't turn to something permanent at your age. All of that would be something to ask a urologist. Until you are 100% without a doubt sure that you do not want to have kids, then you shouldn't do it. I believe at 23, you're too young to know that for sure. What happens if you meet the right girl someday, fall in love with her and she wants a baby? You may just change your mind...you never know. Just my opinion. i guess its ok,as long as your wife dont want kids,but i think you can have your sperm frozen for later on,in case both of you change your mind about having kids,but why would you be considering this at a young age? You are too young in my opinion and there are few advantages for you unless you are in a permanent relationship and your partner also agrees. Even then, circumstances can quickly change. Doctors have rules of thumb because the profession has carefully considered it. Speak to one. Many doctors will ask you to reconsider until you're a bit older, but of course, you don't have to go with the first doctor you see. I encourage my patients to think about it for awhile, discuss it with family or friends, anyone close, and research the procedure as well as speaking with a professional who is experienced with the procedure. We know people whose vasectomy has been reversed, so My advice to you at this age is,don't do it. When you're young it seems like a good idea. You know, stay young, keep responsibilities at bay, make romance more spontaneous and what not. Good times. However, women like babies. They may say no now because you're probably dating early 20 somethings, but one day when their friends start having kids, they're gonna want one too. Wouldn't it be totally fd up if you fell in love with some girl, and then she decides she doesn't want to be with you because you can't give her a baby? Or what if they really want one, and you can't give them one? Wouldn't you feel a little guilty about not being able to give them what they want? Anyway, these are just things to think about. I mean, I'm sure there are girls who really don't care and want to live some ubermench life without responsibilties or kids. But anyway, depending on your medical insurance, the procedure should be totally easy. It's short and painless as an outpatient surgical procedure. You'll spend a day at home just freaking sore with a swollen, tender scrotum, but at least you'll never have to worry about getting someone knocked up, and all the consequences that come along with it, right?? It's a heavy decision. Lots to think about. many, many, many doctors will just not perform a vasectomy if you intend to cyrogenically freeze or otherwise preserve semen/sperm for later in vitro fertilization. i agree that you are too young, but if you decide to do it anyway, i think you should have some of your sperm stored just in case I had a vasectomy at age 21. I have no children. That was the greatest birthday gift I could ever give myself 鈥?The freedom to have all the sex I want. How could I ever regret that? Nope, I can't! |
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