How can my girlfriend and I advance her vaginismus treatment?

Right now my girlfriend and I are dealing with vaginismus (involentary contractions of the vaginal opening that can results in painful penetration or even prevents it all together) and right now we started using a dilator set. She did just fine on the smallest one, and we moved up to the next size and thats been a challenge thus far, but progress is being made. I was wondering under what circumstances would it be best to move on to the next size, or perhaps know anything else that can be helpful that will eventually let two people in love finally consumate. Thank you.

When she can get the dilator in without effort (this means she can lub the dilator up and slide it in without having to talk herself into it or do any kind of relaxation technique) she's ready to move to the next size.

Good luck.

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