Having problems with vaginal pain, hurts to have intercourse more than once in a day.?

I have recently begun having sex with my boyfriend. He isn't very long but is slightly wide. Because I wish not to become pregnant we usually stop intercourse before he climaxes. Invariably he comes back in a few minutes wanting more ( I love my man). The problem is that when we begin again I am extremely tender and have pain if he trys to enter me. I do not have this pain in the beginning only if we try again. I have researched various conditions and vaginismus seems to be the closet to what I am experiencing, only it doesn't happen on the first try. Has anyone else experienced this and are there any suggestions as to what we can do about this problem.
Thanks.

Vaginismus is a disorder that prevents any type of penetration. You do not have this. Contact your doctor.

The only way to know for sure if it is vaginismus or a more broader range of pain in that area: vulvodynia is to get in touch with your dr to evaluate what the problem could be.

I have vulvodynia and yes it does cause me a great deal of pain at times.

To learn more about vulvodynia check out: http://www.vulvarhealth.org

This could possibly be becasue the outside of your vagina is too dry. Try using a lubricant.

Probably lubricant can help? There is a kind of lubricant that made of natural herbs, it is call Manjakani Gel, besides giving sexual pleasure, it also tone and tighten vaginal muscles.

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