A question about my sexual health?

Alright, I tend to be a very sexual person, and always have been in the past. Even during my first marriage (I never got "horny" for my husband after the wedding, the relationship just sucked that bad) I was able to get aroused by other men and women (I'm bi) In previous relationships, I had a happy, healthy, and very vigorous, sex life.

But my current relationship is a long distance one, and when he is away, I stay completely celebate. Even if I wanted to have sex with some one else, I just can't get aroused! When he is here, everything is fine- normal arousal and ability to orgasm with HIM. But now, the only way to get me hot and bothered with him away is the purr of an engine (I have a thing for fast cars) and my orgasms aren't even wholly satisfying!

Is there something wrong? Is it alright? Could it be that it's all fine, my concience just trumps my hormones? What's the deal?!

If this is the wrong place for this question, let me know and I'll move. I just thought it more fitting here since I'm a girl and all.

Does it bother you?

I dont think anything would be wrong with you. Id say your probably just in love and have found a relationship that fulfills you needs.

It could also be that when your not getting sex you dont want it. Im like that - the longer i go without sex the more i think i dont actually want it. Of course when i get it I know its not true lol Its kind of a case of Use it of Lose It lol

A sex life on your own is a healthy thing. May try out some phone sex, sending each other dirty emails and text msgs etc share fantasies with each other etc. it may even make your sex when he's back more passionate.

But the main thing you have to ask you self is does it bother you? If your happy not have any form of sexual release then really there is no big deal. Just get your fill every time you see him hehe

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