My 11 yr old daughter was touched on the breast by a boy could this be a sexual assault?

My daughter lives with her dad & she told me he grabbed her breast at the swimming pool & twisted it & he also kicked her in her vagina. She was very upset about it & afraid to tell her father. I am extremely upset. Her fahter works with this kids mother & the kid plays with my son who also live with his dad. She doesn't like this boy & doesn''t anything to do with him anymore although he is good friends with my son. I do not like the things I hear about him & do not want him hanging around my daughter or son. They live in the same apartments. I notiffied my ex about this today because my daughter is afraid to tell him.

sexual assault? sounds like a "titty twister "to me
kicking her in the vagina.........you mean he kicked her between the legs, just as he would a boy.
The boy sounds like a BULLY to me --NOT a sexual deviant!! Tell your daughter to stay away from him so she doesn't get beat up on.

If he did it on purpose, yes!

Twenty years ago this was just innocent play and exploration. Today it could be sexual assualt. Please don't overreact and make it worse. Your daughter may be embarrassed enough.

depends on how old the boy was and what the nature of the offense was in my opinion. Legally i dont know. If they are both 11 and messing around at school i think its natural enough and the kids are simply playing. If the kid was 16 and older then its a bit creepy.

was your daughter shaken up? does she even know what happened?

20 years ago, when I was growing up....this would be classified as "kids being kids".

Now a days, if someone goes through the right channels.....yeah this could be construed as such.

Yes but come on now. Unless she felt completely in dangered or emotionally hurt. Sometimes it is ok to just say hey you little bastard don't ever do that again and then leave it at that.

I Mean this isn't going to be the first time or the last time. She also needs to learn how to scare the little peckers away.

When I was in school I had mine touched many times but there were also alot of boys who got a swift kick to the groin area.

If he did it on purpose I guess so. If he is the same age as your daughter I wouldn't call the police but I might consider calling his parents. How old was the boy? You really should give a few more details on this.

You would need to talk to your daughter to find out if he did it on purpose. If he did then yes it is sexual assault.

i don't think so. If the boy is the same age, they can just be playing around. Kids will be kids.

depends on how old the boy was.
If boy is same age did your daughter let him out of curiosity, and your daughter touch him, something to think about.
If boy a lot older then you might want to talk to the boys parents.

I would consider it more like sexual harassment, and not assault, but I don't know much about laws. Talk to your daughter and ask her in what circumstances this happened, and if it has been the only time. Also, do you know the boy's age? What were his intentions?
This behavior is common in kids in grades 5-7. Most girls let the boys do that, or let them touch their butts. Of course some girls do NOT like that.There's even an "*** Grab Day" where both boys and girls touch... as much as they can.

it depends on how old was the guy, if he is 17 or older then definitly yes, please tell the authorities and the school. remember to never leave things alone. first you might regret it, second this guy should learn a lesson. ohhh and tell your precious little girl to never let anybody touch her like that. be on top of it.
who will protect her in this cruel world but you ? good luck

Was it purposeful, or just accidental or fleeting? Legally, it could be construed as such, but emotionally, this depends on your daughter. Was it done in a hostile way, does she FEEL violated or upset? If not, I would not make a big production out of it, it might make her feel bad. This really IS a kid thing, kids do this sort of thing, and don't mean it in a violent way. Sexual Assault is a violent crime; that has to be the test-was the kid curious, or was he offensive? If he does this more than once, it could be an ongoing problem, otherwise, if she is not upset by it, drop it. If she is upset, or if he continues to behave this way, you might want to look into charges being pressed

NO, I DON'T THINK SO IF THERE THE SAME AGE AND THEY WERE MAYBE PLAYING AND HE ACCIDENTAL DID IT , DON'T GO THE EXTREMES AND DO ANY THING YOU WILL REGRET

I think this is quite serious. Have a talk with your ex and your daughter and the boy together. If the boy did it on purpose it is a sexual assualt. You have to solve this together and make sure nothing like that happens again.

Yes. Do you want me to come kick that kids ***?

Not knowing the age of the boy, makes it a little hard to answer your question. It seems that this young boy has a serious problems with keeping his hands to himself. I would talk with the father and keep this child away from your daughter. If this bot is older and is aware of what he is doing, then it needs to be reported right away.

If this is the Frist time then no!!

IT IS DEFINETLY BORDERLINE, HE IS ONLY A CHILD BUT IT IS IMPROPER, IF IT HAPPENED AT SCHOOL, THE GUIDANCE COUNSELOR MUST BE TOLD, IF IT HAPPENED OUT OF SCHOOL THE PARENTS OF THE BOY MUST BE TOLD

yes this is a sexual assault.GIVE THEM THEIR REWARD
................SUIT THEM

this is assault Take it VERY SERIOUSLY!!

If he purposely grabbed her and then kicked her to hurt her then yes it assault and he is acting extremely aggressive for a child his age. What has he been exposed to - has he seen his mother be abused by a boyfriend or perhaps his father in the past - is he acting out what he has seen - it's the aggression I would be worried about

i think you ex needs to talk to the boy and your daugther... especially the boy and your ex needs to let the boy know that your daughter's body is hers and that he is not to touch her in any way and the next time it happens he'll have serious conquences and your ex also needs to let the boys mother know what happened. if it happens again get the police involved

yes

Yes their may be a sexual battery charge if the police are involved battery can be pressed against someone for a lite pat on the back it is not allowed if it is no wanted contact

Its Sexual Assault, and you need to report his behavior to your local authorities...

kids fight. sounds like they dont like each other. what did she do to him. fights are usually two sided. i am sure your daughter is not an angel either. if they dont like each other then she should stay away from him walk away when she sees him.

how dare he do this to that dear girl, she should have kicked him in the groins. it is definitely a sexual assault...with the purpose to injure and scare the girl

You should definitely find out who this boys parents are and go tell them.Odds are they will be able to nip this in the bud,I know I have 4 small boys and if they were behaving in such an inappropriate way I would definitely want to know and I promise they would never do it again

i think you should call the boys mother becaus he can damage your daughters privatal areas to were she cant have kids when she gets older an if she is afraid of this kid then tell you ex-husband to keep him away from her or file for costady of the child because a child should not be afraid of being assaulted in her own house or neighbor hood or in public

Maybe you could ask your ex to just talk to the boy's parents so they can let him know that some girls are uncomfortable with being touched in certain places and that he should respect that and if he continues to do it to her or other girls, he could get into serious trouble for it.