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How do i know if iam a virgin after masturbation and sexual assault? |
when i was at a younger age i was sexually assalted nothing really went in my "" mainly out, after that it intimated me to masturbate but then i stopped iam just worried that i had lost my hyman from these things, how would i know if i have lost my hyman or not? i know iam a virgin but with my culture if ur hyman doesnt break the first time you have sex or dont feel little pain the first time u sleep with ur husband it means you are not a virgin and this iam worried about especially that im getting married soon! :( i think one of the most "common" sign if someone lost their hymen when there is already a penetration of a male organ inside the female organ, "yes with the consent of the female partner". But for some cases it don't because some hymens are so thin that both partners didn't notice that her hymen already broke while some other hymen are so thick that cannot be broken easily. still the basis of being a virgin is not in the hymen only but the person you are, what I'm trying to point out here is that its just a medical concept that a broken hymen means she's not a virgin anymore. for me not all who have broken hymen are not virgin anymore. but if its you're culture it is their option whether to believe it. and you have two option: just tell him the truth and free your mind from worries and guilt or just keep this huge white eliphant between the two of you inside your room until he discover what really happend. it your choice. theres nothing to worry about when the reason is reasonable. if he got turned off then its not your lost. :p :( that makes us sadder than ever Tearing your hyman doesn't mean your not a virgin. You lose your virginity when the penis enters the vagina. First off...not everyone is born with a hymen...If you really really really want to know...make a gynocologist appointment...he/she can tell you right away if you have one or not just by look down there. Hope all goes well. Elizabeth is right. I think I broke my hymen when I was 10 (fell crotch-first on monkey bars...seriously). A penis needs to penetrate your vagina in order for you to not be a virgin. I'm really sorry to hear about what happened to you. I hope you have lots of support from friends and family and are on the road to recovery. |
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