What can you do if you feel society has branded and labelled you ?

branded you as a nutter because you have had long standing problems with rage, anger and aggression?

i feel like this, i feel like society has labelled me as a person to avoid or as a nutter or a psychopath a person to alienate, outcast and shun.

im 30 with borderline personality disorder....ive endured a very unfair and painfull life.....bullying...(prol... throughout secondary school and beyond. victimization....sexual abuse....assaults...head injuries.....ive never made any friends ever, never had a partner......never been in a relationship....never been employed....never gained qualifications....all due to my problems.

my life speaks injustice and unfairness.

this is where i feel all the anger, rage and aggression has come from.....while i was being bullied and victimized...i bottled up my anger and never fought back.....so it all went supressed....i internalized everything.

now the icing on the cake is that now i feel societys outcasted me & branded me.
so..
what do i do?

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No one has a way of knowing anything about you, unless you are telling them...I would suggest you stop telling people about yourself, and your past...stop arming your enemies...Deny it,..and hold your head up high...Believe it or not, there are people out there much worse off than you, that go on...and don't let their past keep them from having a future

What would I do?
Seek help & move to another town to start afresh.

Count the number of times you have used the words "I or me" in your question.

People who are entirely concerned with themselves rarely have anything to offer other people. In order to be popular you need to give something back. Most people love to talk about themselves. Try practising listening to other people for a change.

The next time you strike up a conversation with someone, try not to say the words "me or I" and ask them about themselves. You may find this harder than it sounds but you could also be amazed at the outcome!

I often feel that way since I live in a small town and have been manic-depressive with aggression issues and worse since I was 16. People, even family, tend to either treat you diffferently or stay away from you.

The best option if possible is start fresh. Move to a new place but it will come down to getting help so you can start to get all the suppressed emotions out in the open. Keeping things bottled up doesn't help. Find a therapist to talk to and no matter how people or society treat you remember that's it's more important how you feel about yourself than what others feel.

You need to harness a little positive energy and take your life back. I feel you on the unfairness and injustice; as someone who has also suffered from rage by abuse issues it is important that you voice your feelings. First off; don't take any more ****, but keep in mind that not everyone is out to get you and that you now have the power back in your hands to turn it around. This will involve a little caring and support from some type of family, which I hope that you have, and I would also suggest therapy and drug treatment to help with the borderline personality disorder.
Take your life back; if you let them beat you down and defeat you, they win.

Move to a diff area....get yourself sorted, then when your on the up..go back to the area your from just to give them the finger..lol.If they were stupid enough to turn their back on you when you needed them most, they were not worth it anyway. But it is always worth going back just to prove to them what they have lost through their own stupidity and the shocked looks will be worth millions. :)

Accept that there are problems and do something about it.
It is up to you to find solutions & moving forward with getting over it.

Let go of the past.
Let go of your anger.
Move on.

I agree with the above post that says you might want to start afresh in a new town, and this time when you go about things, don't be moved to anger so easily. Anger is manageable and there are methods for dealing with it that you can use at the free site that provides the excerpts from an Anger Management course at http://www.ucmeta.org/Pages/Articles/Ang... and if you want to watch some videos that mgiht help you realize that you are not who you think you are, you are not the damaged personality, but rather a deeper self altogether, check out Christine Breese videos at http://umsonline.org/SpiritualVideoSatsa...

Everyone is judged by their appearance and behavior, you are branded and labeled. Now you live in that box or you change, society is not changing. Also you think about the past to much, we've all had problems. Why should your life be the only one to speak of injustice? Everything you talk about someone here can say that's me. You say you have rage and anger, the next breath you say you understand. Well if you understand then you have to change.

Try prayer and Bible reading.

Two words: Killing Frenzy!