Nightmares - some adult content - can you help me?

I have dreams off and on about my exboyfriend assaulting, molesting, and trying to rape me, and sometimes succeeding. I also have violent (thought not sexual) dreams where my father (divorced parents, i was 11) is fighting with me and holding me back and not letting me leave.

Why do I keep having these dreams? It is very hard for me to deal with. Does anyone out there have similar dreams or know why I have these dreams and how to deal with them?

Thank you very much.

Not really feeling stressed or out of control, life is life as usual. I just got home from Christmas break, but i have had these types of dreams in many different stages of my life. calm or stressed, doesnt matter.

There is the possibility that something may have happened when you were younger that you have suppressed. In this situation, the memory can come out with different people as the players of that scenario.

If these dreams persist, I would recommend seeking psychological help, as it's possible that something happened that you simply can't remember, and it's trying to let itself be known.

Are you feeling out of control about something?

I cant explain your dreams... but i know a really good online dream guide that really helps.
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionar...
just look up something you remember in the dream... for instance... flowers
Then just click the f...easy peasy x]

I wish I could help more, but all I can think to tell you is just know that it is a dream and is NOT actually happening. Did something recently happen that made you feel scared or insecure? Because some of the worst dreams I have had happened the nights after I watched movies with disgusting scenes that hurt me to watch in them, like rapes in movies like The Hills Have Eyes (1 & 2) and other movies.

Do the dreams about your ex Bf
excite you erotically ? If so you
might want to check out domestic discipline.
Its a curious form of sexual pleasure
some people have. Not saying you have
this but if you do its worth a look.

See nightmares, in section 3, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris but I think this is one best left to the psychotherapists, because in depth analysis is indicated, although you can try the treatments, or downloads at www.hypnosisdownloads.com as a cheaper first alternative. Those unresolved issues will continue to resurface, at night, until dealt with. There is a dream analysis section in the Social Science section, from memory, but I'm not hopeful of anything useful, except perhaps some insight, from the more perceptive and knowledgeable people who sometimes drop in.

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I wish I could help more, but all I can think to tell you is just know that it is a dream and is NOT actually happening. Did something recently happen that made you feel scared or insecure? Because some of the worst dreams I have had happened the nights after I watched movies with disgusting scenes that hurt me to watch in them, like rapes in movies like The Hills Have Eyes (1 & 2) and other movies.
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