Sad question?

i have such a sad life, my dad is mentally challanged my mom is in and out of the hospital all the time, plus my school life really sucks, im really sad about everything thats going on and no one seems to give me a break from all my stress what should i do everyday is like a hell for me and its not getting better!

Concentrate on yourself and set goals to accomplish when you aren't busy helping your parents. When I was a child, my father died of Parkinson's Disease and my mother had Progressive Multiple Sclerosis. I grew up mentally challenged (Schizophrenia). I learned what it meant to be really ill early in life and how sickness could take someone precious from me. Mostly I learned that we all live a life cycle and then we are gone. I decided early in life to set goals for myself and set out to accomplish those goals during my healthy years so that later in life I could reap the benefits of my accomplishments. As adults we live the life and endure the situations that we have created for ourselves. There are many things which we can't change, such a poor health in a love one, but we can all learn and try to live the healthiest and happiest life that we choose for ourselves and try to prevent anything bad that is preventable from happening to our own selves..

The best thing you can do is care. You can do that for yourself, your education, your future and your family. If you don't care about these things and create standards for yourself life will always be that way.

movie out if ur old enough.

i'm sorry to hear that! Do something for yourself something that makes you happy

Find out who your mentors are that have their life together. Let them know what you are going through and they will help to morally support you. Then, you can focus on finishing school and getting the heck out of that life style.

Once you are out of that life style and living better, you can then help whomever needs it because you have become strong and independent.

I believe in you because of the courage it took to put that information out to everyone.

just stay on the good side of the law and you wont have half the drama im going through. take this advise to the grave.

speak with a teacher or principal
or go to a trusted family member
or go to a church and get involved

i am guy so if i am sad i open myself to my good friend and they open up to me it comforts and if u feel awkward go out and get couple of drinks to ease ur brain and open. But the main thing u have to do is open up to somebody share it

watch the 700 club 11:00 ch 49 mon - fri

joel osteen - sun 12:00 ch 49

i think you"ll know what im saying

If youre sad maybe you should consult a psychologist.

Yeah I know this is going to sound like the same old crap other people tell you. Have you tried talking to your guidance councillor? There may be organizations that can help you that your councillor can put you in touch with.
Do you have a school psychiatrist? Maybe you could talk to her/him about your problems and your continual sadness. You need to get some outside help. Also you can check with your county Social Services office you may be able to hook up with a good therapist through them. Ususally the fee is minimal or free depending on your financial situation. Don't go through this alone, get yourself some help. There may also be help available to your family members too.
Good Luck God Bless You
LL

express yourself, spray paint some graffiti on a chain link fence, just joking, but seriously go have some fun i personally like showers with a girlfriend , but you can find your own thing, or just get help, it all works.

Well, you need to stay strong and focus on the positive things in your life, and talk to someone like a close relative,friend or school consulor about these situation. Be brave and look on the bright side of life. Things will change as time goes by.

Take a class that is just fun. Use it as a social distraction. For example, I'm taking drama. When I'm in this class, all my friends are around me and it's like the outside world doesn't exist. I get similar results when I ride my horse. When I return to reality, I'm ready to face it. Find a passion! Good luck!

My heart goes out to you.

If you want to be taken out of that situation, you could always report your parents to social services. If you mom is always gone and your dad cant take care of you that is neglect. Of course, being in foster care is no dream.

Is there another family member you can stay with? A friend? Just until things get a little better?
You do need to start by talking to a school counselor.

I was always depressed growing up, so I know how you feel. If you want to talk email me at
www.cheeto_04@yahoo.com
Just put "sad question?" in the subject line so I will know who you are. I don't open emails if I don't know where they are coming from

You can either learn that you have the power to change your life for the better or you can let all those things hold you back your whole life. I hope you choose the first choice. It wont be easy but let me tell you something I learned that may help you.

Changing the way you think can change your whole life. Right now all your thoughts are negative thoughts and those thoughts are responsible for how you are feeling both physically and emotionally. When you think negative thoughts (sad thoughts) your body is flooded with naturally occurring chemicals that make you feel even worse. If you go on like that for a long time it will make you physically sick. So try focusing on the good things you see everyday. Make a point of looking for good things. Keep a record of them, the more good thoughts you have the better you will feel. I wish someone had told me that when I was your age. Listen to the old lady, ok? I have been through alot in my life. I know you can have a better life , you just need to believe that also.

See stress at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris on page 7, and practise daily, and when needed, the mindfulness breathing, or word/phrase repetition techniques on page 2 (try the EFT, too), and the guided meditations on page 3.

hullo
it was a stroke of bad luck,if i may say so,nonetheless,they are your family ,try to accept that and help them as much as you can,i will call this self determinism.

Dr solo