I feel sad all the time?

I am a 13 year old girl. i just keep crying all the time and i dont really know why and i would just cry so much and feel sad for no reason. it has been going on for about 3 months now. like last night while my mom was braiding my hair i started crying, not because it hurt but because i felt sad. I dont know whats going on. sometimes if feel lonley and sometimes i just want to be alone i dont know what to do.
i tried to tell my mom but she didnt really understand. there is alot going on in my family though like my mom and dads divorce but i dont know.
my mom also suggested going to talk to someone but i refused.
there was also this other time where i got ome from my dad's house and i started to cry and my mom came to talk to me and i kept telling her and telling her i dont know whats wrong with me sometimes i just feel really really sad and i cant handle it anymore should i try and explain to her again.

Ive done that around your age. I eventually got over it. Just spend more time with your friends, have some fun, forget about everything that bothers you. And listen to music, play some games. Calm yourself! And be happy. :) good luck

your moms right you have to talk to someone prbely a councelor you could sufering from depression.

I barely turned 14 and I had the exact same reaction I would get so confused when i cryed and so frustrated my doctor told me that its a growth thing its when kids are in the middle of their child years and their pre-teen years its normal so dont worry about it.

Keep trying to tell your mom how you feel and when she offers some real help like someone to talk to, jump at the chance! Parents are not of much use when they are getting divorced, too preoccupied with their own feelings and feel too guilty to hear how badly you are feeling. GO TALK TO SOMEONE.

Your problem might be nutritional especially if you eat a lot of sweets and/or drink a lot of pop.
One thing you can try before you think about taking antidepressants is "vitamin B 50 complex". It comes in many different brands and can be purchased at grocery stores and drug stores.
It sure helped me.
Hope

I've been through that as well. You can try to explain it to her, but if she doesn't understand, she may not be the one to talk to. I understand why you don't want to go for counseling. There's nothing wrong with being sad, but if you're miserable, there may be something you can do about it. When I was younger, my mum forced me to go to counseling. I went to a few before I found one I liked. One tried to analyze me and diagnose me with some disorders. She was a psychiatrist. I wouldn't suggest one as they tend to see you as more a patient than a person.

However, I had much better success with a counselor that didn't really have any kind of degree. She just listened to me for the most part. But she didn't try to 'fix' me or anything and I was much more comfortable with that. So if your crying becomes a continual thing, counseling might be the way to go. Its not so much that there's something wrong with you that needs to be fixed. But its good to have someone who you can talk to about anything you like and they will listen and help and they're not allowed to tell anyone what you say. Sometimes its good to have that kind of support.

But before you agree to anything like that, you and mom need to agree that you and you alone will decide if you would like to continue seeing a particular counselor.

Kiddo, You have a lot on you right now, with puberty, being 13 and your parents getting a divorce. That is an awful lot for a young woman to carry. Your mom is right when she says you need to talk with a professional. Let some wonderful therapist, who will be there just for you, carry some of that load. Therapy can be fun sometimes and a very uplifting experience. Depression is a difficult battle to fight alone. Get a therapist who deals with teens. Good luck to you and let me know how you make out. I'd love to hear about your new therapist!

IDK the same thing is happening too me =' ( im like crying for no reason right now.

it sounds like depression, if its not a boy problem it's probably from the divorce