Im a 29 year old lonely guy battlin mental probs, my dream isto get a girl, but not just any girl?

i would like a girl like ' ann wilson' from heart does anyone no how i can get this..i dont want any other girl.. plus i wanna live in nice rural surroundings, like farmland, with barns an stuff, with ranches in the states..but i dont work, i battle mental health issues, i live in england. so how can i achieve this also? these are my dreams ..my hopes, i dont want anything else..so f**ck it. its this or nothing...nothing at all

That could be your problem right there. "F*** it"??? Life isn't all or nothing. That is a bad attitude to have. And a girl isn't going to solve your problems...or where you live. Those things do not make you happy. You are the only one who can do that. People try that all the time--and it never works.

Quit "battlin" your mental problems and get some help.

oh i get it--you are lonely and picky but cant figure out why you are lonely--oh ok

your mental prob is what?

sometimes, our dream is just too perfect for us that it feels like it's so impossible to achieve. don't worry, there's someone for you, just don't give up looking.

goodluck!

Don't give up on your dreams. Get help about your metal problems and join groups and clubs with people your own age and you will get to socialize and be with others and you just might meet the girl of your dreams. Good luck.

Well you got to be a little less demanding because not every thing works out the way we want to. If it did then life would be perfect and life is never perfect. I would consider first working on the mental health issues first because those will only interfere with a relationship and will probably fail because of them. You need to be healthy in every way before you think you can be ready to take on a steady relationship. I don't mean any kind of offense but who would want a boyfriend who has serious problems? It doesn't work that way. Work on yourself first. As for your dreams, you are in control of your destiny. The choices you make are entirely up to you. If you want that life then make the right choices to get you there. You have the rest of your life, don't give up. If you believe in yourself then that is all that matters. Hope this is helps and I hope you make it there!

JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND LOOK AROUND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF SO YOU CAN BE HAPPY BEFORE YOU MAKE A STEP IN YOUR LIFE THAT WAY YOU WONT BE MISERABLE AND BE GIVING HER PROBLEMS.

www.HEART-MUSIC.com...........it is a fan club for Heart,...and maybe you can get some fan mail to Ms. Wilson herself? It might be fun to try.......and remember, "In the minds of men, Empires begin....".........good luck with your quest in life...

Hey, work on yourself and the woman will come. Trust me/

you can't set your goals up too high. master little things at first. you can't say "this or screw it"...then you're setting yourself up for failure. sometimes we have to accept the little things in life first before running into the big ones. *hug* take care and God bless.