Is pre-marital sex wrong & harmful for reproductive health.?

my bf wants to hav sex wid me..wat should i do?????

Get rid of him. Yes, it's wrong and will mess up your entire life aside from "reproductive health."

A man wanting sex before marriage is not worth going out with.

no it is not so just have a darn good time and learn to do it right so when you do get married you will know how to pleasure your hubby and keep him satisfied.

If you're not ready, then you need to say now.

This is your body. Sex doesn't harm your health, but there is ALWAYS a chance for pregnancy. Personally, if you were my daughter, I would rather you be protected and KNOW that you are ready for sex then just have sex and sneak it by me.

Once again, if you are NOT ready for sex, then say no. Don't let him force that on you.

Depending on your religion, it may be morally wrong. But providing you are using safe, and reliable contraceptives you should be fine. Remember basic hygiene tips such as washing carefully before and after, for him, under his foreskin. And you should be fine.

Just be careful, and have fun! :)

Premarital sex isn't harmful to reproductive health; but unprotected sex can be.

Go with your gut. If you're not ready you're not ready. Don't be pressured into something you don't want to do.

Whether it's wrong or not is an answer only you can give yourself (due to your upbringing and beliefs).

Well it's certainly NOT harmful for reproductive health. A piece of paper doesn't influence your health -- either way, it's basically sex. Now, as for wrong, it's more of a matter of principle. If you feel like you should do it and you'd enjoy it, go for it (unless you're 14 or something... in that case, you should wait a bit longer). If you're simply not ready for it, tell your boyfriend.

Play safe game......have but with safety

NO

Deciding to have sex for the first time is a big step in your life. There can be only one "first time" for everyone. This really needs to be YOUR choice. Don't let your boyfriend put pressure on you. If you don't feel ready to do this yet, then don't do it! And yes, it can harm your health, because if you are not careful, you can either get pregnant or contract STDs, including things that can kill you (like AIDS).

only you can answer that, if you are not ready then tell him, if he is not understanding then the hell with him!!!! THAT'S WHAT'S UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why are you hesitating to say NO to him? Pre-marital and un-protected sex is not advisable. If you wish to take risk, no one can help. Use of Condom is a must if you wish to do that.

It all depends on whether you want it or not. But i would say, its worth waiting for till your marriage. Virginity and purity is a rare thing in todays world. What would be a more precious gift to your husband than your virginity? So its entirely upto you. Anyway it doesnt cause any harm to reproductive health.

if u want to have about sex before marraige than u shud reply positively to ur boyfrend and it is not harmful to reproductive health ya and it is not anyhting wrong i have it with this before marraige and still i have not get married

The problems with premarital sex are the following:

1.- You risk yourself to get STDs (if he had one and did not know)
2.- You risk yourself to a pregnancy without an established home for the future baby. If you end by accepting to have sex,
3.- To have a sexual intercourse with someone is a great sample of trust. You have to trust a lot your boyfriend to have sex with him.

If you don't want to have sex with him then don't, but biologically its no different than post-marital sex. Your main concerns are pregnancy and STDs, so use a condom and preferably some additional birth control, like the pill, if you do.

Have you had SEX with anyone else and if the answer is NO, then tell him to wait or find a new girlfriend.

well its wrong before marriage bc god said so.. its aldutery and you reap what you sow and if a guy really loves you he would be willing to wait.. a man wanting sex before marraige is not worth your time.. so its up to you but i would say no if i were you and if eh gets mad and angry..DUMP HIM!

yes/no

... just say no; if he can't accept that, he doesn't like you for you!

Yes, its fornication; which is considered adultery in the bible

Its not harmful for reproductive health but tell me something, are u sure u r gonna marry this same person? what if he dumps u after satisfying himself? if u 2 are so desparate then go get married and have it legally! why afraid of marriage? and if marriage can wait then even this can wait for u 2! so think hard and decide carefully! best of luck!

In India girls normlly get marry after 20 so it's not easy to keep far u r self from sexual life so we have to get pre-marital sex.

If u don't have sex with some one before marry it's sour that u have self sex. Pre marital sex with some one is batter than self sex. Becz self sex is harm-full for health also.
If u have sex u will be happy so get sex and be a happy.

Have a good sexy life.

Well positively ...just like a sister i am advising u that boys r far clever than girls..sometimes we think that our bf is very sincere and caring and we do trust on them but sometimes reality is opposite to it....if he want to make such a realtionship with u make sure that it will not harm u...if he wud be dam serious with u and will be sincere then he will never ever force u to do that...it is true that humanbeings have such feelings and they want to apply them in their life as soon as possible but everything had its disadvantage as well....so my suggestion is that wait untill u get maaried him ...but in case u wud'nt marry him u will be perfect and virgin wife for ur husband...so dont be dishonest and try ur level best to marry him first and then do sex....afterall its ur life u can take better decesion than anyone else....but dear sister think again ....think abt ur family,ur future and my advise.....ask ur self and u will find the answer..take care.....