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Rape?........?


I was raped over a year ago, and my hymen was already broken before i was raped ( not from sex ) (i bled a little from damaged inside )
it was less then a minute he was "in" and didn't go really 'deep'
and my boyfriend is supposed to come down next month and probably will have sex and i was wondering would it hurt/bleed/ect?


ps my bf knows about it and everything

You shouldn't bleed because your hymen is already broken and the sex won't be forced. You might find it a little uncomfortable at first, during penetration, but it should feel better once he's inside. Lots of foreplay before will help loosen you up. Make sure you are lubricated enough either from oral sex or buy some KY Jelly or Astroglide. If you are lubricated, relaxed and ready it shouldn't hurt.

well its different for everyone but if he knows about it thre is nothing to worry about

it probably will hurt b-cuz u tighten up after a long period of time.....USE PROTECTION

Sorry to hear that. I hope that you talked to someone about it...someone you can trust. Well it depends on size. even know the vagina is a muscle and its made to stretch and go back to its normal size. It can only stretch so far and go back to its regular size so much...so yes it will be a day where your vagina will be a bit looser than usual...also depends on how much you have sex and how many partners you have. That really narrows the percentage of having a loose vagina. There are exercises you can do. You squeeze your vaginal muscles like you where holding to go pee for about a minute or two, than rest for 1min [repeat] do that for 30mins every day.
You probably wont bleed because your hymen has already been broken.

I dont recommend sex before marriage, but you should get help with rape problem.

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