Is it considered RAPE if u wantd it at 1st?

i lost my virginity to this guy. i wanted it he wantd it . but afterward i felt disgustd and somewhat dirty. those are rape symptoms. but then again i kinda wantd it.. so was it rape?

If you told him to stop and he refused then it would be rape but if you consented through the entire action but later you had regrets and started to feel disgusting and dirty then it is not rape.

not rape if you consented to it, however if you took it to the police I'm sure they will believe you over the guy-never fails.

No i do not think it is, I think you where just upset that you lost it to him.

I guess it is just regret

did u tell him to stop if u didnt i guess its not rape maybe u were just not ready for sex

its only rape if u didnt want it at all and you were forced. so no

lol no. rape is forced.

rape is only when you say no and did not want it so no that was not rape at all.

Rape comes in many forms. If you felt unduly pressured either physically or psychologically to have sex it could be termed as rape. Even manipulation by another person that leads to sex can have the effects of a rape. Feeling disgusted and somewhat dirty are not neccessarily signs of a rape, as these feelings crop up in people who are not comfortable with sexual activity as well as in rape victims. If having sex (including consensual sex) goes against your moral principles, your religion, or even your usual sense of hygiene you may feel the same things you describe. It could just be that, despite your sexual attraction to your partner, you simply weren't ready to have sex and didn't fully understand what the outcome of sex would be (emotionally or physically).

It is not considered rape if you fully consented to it, you may feel ashamed afterwards but that does not indicate rape, it indicates that you are either un-educated about sex and relationships, or feel that it wasn't the right time or person, maybe social pressures, religion you get my point . You may feel afterwards like it was the wrong decision, or that the person you chose to have sex with wasn't 'right' but this does not justify rape by any means. Maybe you should have thought a little bit more about the decision you chose to make before you did it....

No. You fully consented to it. Your feelings could really just stem from regret or guilt at having lost your virginity to this guy.

If you told him to stop and he did not it is rape.

If you consented to have sex with him and afterward you feel dirty and gross that is NOT rape! It sounds like you are too young to have sex anyway! Don't do it again until you are a little more mature or married!

NO, rape is when he/she makes you have sEx but when its love its not rape. but how old where you?

Feeling "disgusted" or "dirty" aren't rape symptoms, they can be normal reactions to sex if it's your first time because you're scared or nervous, or because you feel society or your parents would look down on you. Even if you were married first you might have these feelings because it is a new experience and because it's your body. If you consented under pressure by your boyfriend, or threatening, that could be a type of rape. If you consented of your own free will but later felt uncomfortable, then that is probably not rape.

Don't feel guilty about asking these questions, becoming sexually active can be a difficult and confusing time. Remember to always use at least a condom, to get regular check ups with a doctor (preferably an ob/gyn -- you can go to a free clinic like planned parenthood), to have a plan in case of pregnancy, talk to your partner about monogamy and STIs, and to ALWAYS realize that you can say NO at any time, even if you've said yes before.

I think you should sit down and talk to your boyfriend about your feelings and maybe ask if you can put off having sex again until you've had time to work through them. If he really cares he'll understand and wait, if not, get rid of him, there are more where he came from!

Be careful and good luck!

if u wanted it its not rape

if you willingly consented, and were not drugged, it is not rape.
it is normal to have those sorts of feelings afterward. sometimes, only afterwards do we realize how big, and irreversible, a decision we have just made

If you consented then it wasn't rape. If at some point you changed your mind and told him to stop and he didn't it would be rape. Sorry you're feeling dirty and having regrets. Just a suggestion, but from now on when you have sex make sure you're at peace with the decision and really want to. You should find someone you trust to share your feelings about this with or at least plug into a creative outlet like journaling, art, dance, music, scrapbooking.