Is it rape if........?

You start out willing to have sex with a person but when you find out that he is not going to use a condom and you tell him no but he does it anyway. I kept telling him no the whole time. I am ashamed because I was into him until he wouldnt put a condom on so I just want to know if it is rape?

thanks for your answers I cant believe how stupid I was I have no intentions of turning it in because it is my fault if I had never went in his house with him it never would have happened. I am just really scarred about everything pregnancy std's I was so stupid thx for your answers

WHAT?!

THAT IS NO WAY YOUR FAULT!!

And he HIT YOU?!?!

TURN HIM IN! DO IT!

he is a worthless excuse for a man! Turn him in now! he deserves it 100%!

He didn't put on a condom...he hit you....and then he raped you.

You seriously need to turn him in! Think of the other women he will rape in the future! Think of the other women he will get pregnant! and worst of all think of all the other women he will beat!!

He needs to get what he deserves! Or it will only get worse.. don't let him think he can get away with whatever we wants!

If you said no, then yes, this is rape.

It's rape. If you say no, its rape.

yes what a jerk im sorry sweetie.. go to an adult you trust and tell them..get tested and find out if youre pregnant its not youre fault hes an ******!

Yesss, that's rape.
Did you try to leave?

yep...i think that would be rape...as long as you said no before he entered you

Any time both partners do not agree to sex yes it is consider rape. NO means, no i changed my mind i do not want to do this any more

Yes..it is..But u should be aware about first all the time..
Everybody should be..

no means no. it was rape you should go to an adult you trust

if you say no, its rape, no matter if you told him you wanted to, as soon as you say no, its no longer consentual, which equals rape, so i would tell someone, i was molested by my great grandpa when i was 10, if you want to talk, i am here, i have my email set up so you can email me, and also my yahoo messenger, it says i am offline most of time, but i am usually on, if not i'll get back to you when i do get on, i am so sorry to hear this happened to you...

if he entered you after you said no than it IS rape

Legally, yes in most states in the US, not all. MORALLY, yes, it is rape anywhere though.

The minute you said NO and he went ahead it is RAPE and he is a jerk. PERIOD> turn him in!

You are standing on a very gray line. Since you got to the point where you were and were willing up to that point, you may have something, then again, you may not. You should contact your local City attorney's office and ask them their advice. If they think it should be prosecuted, then maybe you should. If you do pursue it, be prepared for a mud slinging fight from hell. You will be put under a terrible light and questioned hard. I don't think you have a good case here. You can't take back what happened and niether can he. If I were you, I would let him know that you can't trust him for not respecting your wishes of using protection. Let him know that if you are pregnant, you hold him 100% responsible to hold up his end. Then walk away, you don't need to be with anyone you can't trust. Don't give him the time of day ever again. Know what I mean?

Oh, and just to clarify, I think it is rape, but you still need to contact a legal representative for your area.

If you said no, he should have stopped. Yes, I would say this could be classified as rape. I don't know that I would say anything but I definitlely wouldn't have anything to do with this guy ever again. What happens if you are pregnant? Let's hope your not.

its rape since u didnt want to do it and it was done by force.Good luck!!!! Hope i helped!!!!

YES!! NO NO means NO . Doesn't matter when you say it. Depending on your age you may not have been able to consent anyway. It's16 here but depends on the guys age also. That is if your under and hes older.

It depends.
Why didn't you leave?
Did he stop you from leaving, or did you not make an attempt to leave?

yes its rape - unless you did it but then after you regretted it - but thats not ur situation - you said no before but he FORCED it on you, so yes its rape. and he's in trouble, tell someone and dump him for good!

yes that's rape even if you change your mind at the end.

yes.its RAPE!any UNwilling sex is rape.if youre scared or something than you should talk to someone you trust.if it happens again and you feel it is abuse...then you should report it to the police,if thats not your thing, then try to be with people you trust to stick up for you whenever he would have
a chance to rape you. but to answer ur question...yes its rape...and im sorry it happened to you!

maybe you should consider turning him in.........if he hurt you in any way

YES THAT IS RAPE!!

If at any time you said "no" or "stop" but he continued anyway, then YES it absolutely is rape and you should report it.

Rape is NEVER the victim's fault.

NO IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT... AT ALL! If he didn't want to do it even if you were butt naked, he would expect you to stop, right?

What's the difference?! Even if you had already been having sex. Once you or he says you no longer want to do any more it's over.

It's not your fault for going over there. Quit thinking like that or you'll allow this to happen again to you. Just because you go to someones house when you like them, it does not give the green light to sex. Intentions may be there but we should all be respected for our decisions even if whe change our mind.

If he HIT you AND FORCED YOU. It's definitely RAPE and you should say something because he obviously thinks it's ok for him to do. Now you're worried about std's and other things and I bet you're still uncomforable when you see him and have more fears about seeing anyone etc etc and the list goes on.

Don't be a victim. If this happened the way you say it did, it was wrong and it was rape. Tell someone in confidence at least and let them help you decide what to do but don't do it all alone that really sucks.