First Sexual Experience was a Rape?

I was raped by 4 guys when I was 14. Physically my virginity was taken, yes... but mentally... who feels that I was a virgin after that rape?

To the people who are doubting that I was raped and the people who think I should report it, please read the question. I WAS 14, that was ten years ago. Since then, I am able to word it in a simple question. It took me a long time to come to terms with this... so save the judgements for someone else.

Rape is an act of violence not sex. You have not had sex yet. Actually you can have you body restored by a plastic surgeon . mentally you have never made love with some one you care about and by choice.

Rape is a violent act not one of love and passion. When you finally find someone with whom to share that magic with, your virgin soul will no longer exist. Until then wait for magic to happen for it only happens once in a lifetime. Report It

you'll feel for that, be more confidence to face at the future ,but do not need to turn around such the violence matters..be confidently can help you more powerful and spiritual

I feel you still were.

Well in this world of physical evidence, where the word mental doesn't really matter, your not a virgin whether you wish to accept it or not.

first of all I am so sorry to hear this, bless your heart. Usually sex is between two people who both want it, I feel you are a virgin because you have not had sex with someone at your consent.

For your sake, sure, rationalize it the way you can best live with it. Emotionally and everyway accept one, yes you are.

You should report to Police and those who have commited the crime must be punished. Speak to someone who can help you. My heartiest sympathy is with you.

I just don't believe it happened that way. You just don't come here on Yahoo and say you have been raped. You may have had sex, but I think you said ok. Anyway, at 14 it is rape regardless if you said ok or not. And yes, you are no longer a virgin.

NO ONE, BECAUSE YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY DURING THE RAPE.

I HOPE YOU REPORTED IT AND THE PERVERTS ARE IN JAIL.

you are a virgin as far as i am concerned.physically you were robbed and you can honestly still say i am going to stay a virgin untill i am married. put it behind and out forever. it was not your fault. bless your heart

Elkie.it very simple.
Since u did not concent to any sex so u did not have sex.sex was enforced on u.no mentally u r as much a virgin as anyone else.Just because some guys did something to u does not mean u should feel sorry about it.It is they who shud be sorry.Forget that such a think even happened and enjoy life.There is always a morning after every night.
best of luck
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Virginity is just a symbol of your physical purity, but it should not be above everything. Forget it and be great in whatever your strengths and beauty. Life is yours.

I was also raped when i was 12 years old and i have always considered myself a virgin till i had my first relationship (consensual) I know how you feel it was several years before i told anyone what happened. I kept it inside and i didn't tell anyone till i was in high school. I have forgiven the person that did that to me. God Bless