A paradise or a hell? kind of a philosophy hypothetical about sexual relationships.?

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ok - i read on yahoo today that women can tell from guys faces if they have a hormonal tendency towards being fatherly types or macho men, and that women prefer to have flings with macho men but make husbands out of family guys. so unlike guys, who natural want to get with all women all the time to spread their genes, women have a natural tendency to want a different kind of guy at different times.

of course - in today's society you can't do both. but apparantly in the animal world monogomous animals lke birds, the females 'cheat' with hottie males and have make love to their normal males to keep the nest. in people, women are most likely to cheat when ovulating.

So what if society was built around at least some men getting many partners, other men getting steady sex, and women getting both the mates and flings with no regrets? Its science fiction, but imagine that disease prevention, birth control, and paternity testing eliminated the need for enforced monogamy. Women could commit to a guy for the long term, but still fulfill her desires when nature calls. Naturally, there would be a group of guys who got a lot of different women, and another group that got a steady stream of sex with one.

If you can put yourself in such a world, is it paradise or hell? Who is it best to be? Who is it worst to be? And what role would you most likely play, and why?

I'd want to be the dad to a bunch of great kids....that way I'd be macho too... because the most important, most macho job in the world is being a good loving caring father.


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At this point in my life --- my children are all grown up --- I'll take the "job" of satisfying LOTS of lusty women!

A world like that would be fantastic. Except for the hopes of having babies later eliminated... Maybe when you're younger there's some way to postpone your fertility and then have babies when you want. Like an off button. That would be nice. I would probably be the girl committing to one guy, even though I'm very lusty, because I find it's way better to channel all your desire upon one person.. it makes it better for them too, because they know how much you want them.