I hate my parents. I think they are so weird. They contradict me all the time, they make out that I am wrong?

, when I am doing something good. They don't encourage me to do stuff, they disrespect my friends and are rude to their parents. I鈥檝e lost good friends because of my parents. My parents don't support me in anything I do, any advice they do give is always wrong.

I am actually looking forward to the day that my parents pass on, because then I can look forward to the rest with peace of mind that I don't have to worry about making mistakes by them. I don't actually care about my parents! They don't show me any love, so why should I bother.

You haven't really asked a question.
Your parents don't sound very good, just try and get along with them as best you can, while you still need them.
Once you have a job and can afford to move out, cut your ties with them and forget they exist.

i feel the same way

hate is a really strong strong word..are u sure thats how u feel?

I understand you, I have been in your shoes.

As soon as you can live on your own, do it.
When you hit the age that you can live NOT at home but away someplace, do it.
Go travel.

Travel a lot !

It helped me.
about friends? Well.... I still have good friends today but strangely enough they are NOT the friends I had when I was young.

Go figure.

you don't say how old you are here=if you dislike the way things are at home then get a job and move out=this way you won't have anyone to nag at you and you just might learn that some of the things your parents have said aren't wrong after all=good luck

How old are you.

If your having a bad time at home is there anyone you can confide in or talk to about how you feel.That can sometimes help you to sort out your feelings

It's horrible to feel unloved and perhaps your parents don't mean to be so hurtful.

parents can often be like that! mine have been like that most of my life so i often do things to spite them! <ie havin piercings and getting tat's> im not reccomending you so the things ive done though just to spite them! maybe their just looking out for you? if you know youre doing something good then great! perhaps you've come to learnm that youre not gonna get praise from then so you learn to give it yourself!? Keep youre friends, talk to youre friends about ur parental units! perhaps try to talk to youre parents about how they make you feel!? if no joy then at least you tried!

I think this is very difficult for you and you need to be very careful about how this affects you. Because we're programmed to love our parents it could make you twisted and troubled when they aren't giving you the attention and love you need as a child.

My parents are similar and I've long since distanced myself from them. Now they are grandparents to my son and they have carried their bad attitude on to him. I banned them from the first 2 years of his life because they were almost indifferent to anything to do with him besides taking photos to show their friends. Now I am very careful not to be too embroiled with my parents and not to expect anything of them. I also (severely) limit the time they spend with my son. Luckily, as they don't care about him this is quite easy.

I am probably a lot older than you at 40. I think that maybe this will give you an insight into the fact that your situation will not change. Just protect yourself and don't go crazy waiting for them to care about you. Be honest with your real friends and disown your parents if you have to. But don't do anything you'll regret when they have passed away. In fact, thats the only reason I gave my parents a chance to see my son - because I didn't want the guilt of them having died without another chance (which they blew) to see him.

Its seriously affected my life, having a mother that doesn't care about me and a father that doesn' seem to know how to care. I wish i'd extracted myself from them years ago, but I didn't.

Look after yourself and don't look out for them more than they deserve.

Best wishes

R

A well known truism:

A sign of maturity is when you stop blaming your parents for all your troubles.

If you live with your parents. you got it all wrong, now if they are your guest then they need help.
Caring about anybody and wishing or looking forward to them passing on don't go together unless they are in a lot of pain and there is no hope for getting better. child you need to move out if you are of age. otherwise get it together, and stop being so spoiled!

I am so very sorry that you are so unhappy..i hope you are wrong in your parents loving you---but if not--I i was there I would give you a big bear hug and pat you on the back. lol
It appears that you are still young, but when you get old enough, go out--get a job--and get you some friends and do as you wish.
Good luck in life.

Sounds like we had the SAME parents. In EVERY detail.

Here I am, 25 years old, without a drivers license.

All the career paths I ever wanted to take and tried to take growing up, my parents ordered me to quit and totally discouraged me. Telling me to come home every day for THEM. .....

EVERYTTHING I did.

So now I have no drive to do anything. and THEY wonder why I am not working !!

(thank god I don't live with them . least thats good).

If there is ONE thing parents should at least do, no matter How poor , is make CERTAIN that there children learn how to drive and get a license.

STILL dont have one, because I can't afford to take the tests !

Don't have a car. Barely have enough money for food each day.

You might say, I don't bother talking to my parents anymore. It's been five years since I was kicked out of there place. (kicked out for no other reason either then having no job !! yet everytime i got a job they took me out of it growing up !!).

The few times I do talk to either of them, they want to borrow money and I got none !

THEY are the children .

I lost friends too. I never was allowed to even have a girlfriend growing up !!

I didn't lose my virginity till I was 23 !!

ok , enough complaining.

But you and I , we sure have the same parents it seems.

No one else will understand you, but I do.

And others may say "aww its excuses, ya can't blame others etc" well, you can if you were brought up to not feel good about doing anything you want.

You know, I once joined the school newspaper, and drew comics in it, and i was proud, I brought it to my parents . And they took it away and told me to get out of it instantly !

People whom grew up with parents that encouraged and cared, will NEVER understand .

Feel free to contact me anytime.

When you start paying rent, they'll change. Till then, you're living on their dime, so they get to make the rules. It's how it is in life, it's good to be the King.

Hate is an awful strong word. You sound like a typical teenager." My parents always think they're right, they think they know what's best for me", I can't do anything etc........But............ anyone that wish their parents dead and doesn't care whether they are dead or alive, there is something wrong. I think you need to seek counseling.

It is ok not to like your parents, but don't hate them.

Anywayz, I feel the same way. I don't really want my parents to die, but I wish I lived really far away from them.
I think almost all teens feel the same way. (I am assuming you are a teen.)

Love can be shown in strange ways; your parents were not born knowing how to be parents; none of us were. the only role model they may have had to learn from may have been their own imperfect parents...hey, lots of us parents mess up.

they may truly believe they are showing their love for you; if you asked them they would probably be horrified and hurt that you feel this way, and be totally bewildered.

I went through a very long phase of hating my mother, even after I left home and had a family of my own. But now I realise she didn't know any better. She did the best she knew how in her limited life, and that's all we can expect from anyone.
It doesn't mean you have to like your parents; it just means you accept them.
When you are ready to leave home, it will be right for you; sometimes parents forget that children are real people too.

why should you exactly! I'm no expert on but stand up to them if it bothers you,if they say u r wrong,tell them: right or wrong it's my opnion & i'm entitled to my opinion & let them know there's such a thing as freedom of choice in this world.It must be tough on you. also u don't have to respect them either.If they want respect,they must give respect.
If I were u,I'd move out asap & then keep them at an arm's length & have minimum contact with them.But never be like them,if u be disrespectful & rude,u'll become just like them.Stand up to them but in ur own sweet way!
this is just my advice,please ignore it if it doesn't make sense!

are you a teenager?say no more ....

so why are you still living at home?

You are obviously quite young, and quite angry. Do your parents beat you, starve you of affection, neglect you in any way? If so, ring Childline os Samaritans, or the police.
If they provide you with shelter, food, clothes, an education, protect you from harm, shut your yap. You will miss your parents terribly when they die, no matter how old you will be when that happens.

Mine are doing the same thing with me except im fighting back......i mean physically and emotionally.I have an older sister who got anything she ever wanted when she asked.I can't even ask to borrow money for a bus ride to school so i have to walk alot of the times.Now that my girl friend is getting her liscence i need to get mine so i don't feel like a damn bum and i don't want her driving me around.So i ask to go get a job and they start changin the subject to how i can't wake up....well im goin to BMT for the air force next summer...and my recruiter has told me im really grown up for my age......The real question is why do parents like ours contradict us because they think so little of us.I still have yet to see any favor from them.And im suppost to be the lazy one...thats why they work in factories and have an education....shitty world right?!