My parents neglect me emotionally.?

i live in middle east that means:
1. i cant go out alone nor with my friends.
2. i can't depend on my friends.

so dont tell me to tell some-one close to me because it wont help,
don't tell me to see a psychiatrist when my parents are ignoring me, and i cant go out alone.
and don't tell me to tell my parents about how i feel, read the tittle of this question to know why.


i am curently suffering from anxiety disorder and depression.
my hair is falling out.
i can't sleep.
i get mood swings.
i suffer from eating disorder.
and everything irritates me.

these happen to me because of the way my parents treat me. [you don't need to know]

i told my parents about these things that i'm suffering from and they didnt react currectfully.
they just told me it's nothing.

but i cry every night.
so much that i'm getting hurt, physically.

what should i do?

btw, i'm agnostic.

sorry for your hardships
try reading the Quran more often
it keeps my mind off bad things and ease me through my hardships and ask Allah(SWT) for help

if that doesnt help then i dont know what can help you

try telling ur parents how you feel

talk to your school counselor and see if they can talk to you or get you some help. If your parents are abusing you, tell the police or talk to some of your other family members. If none of that works or is possible, do the best for you and try to help yourself because all the behavior you have can cause only YOU damage. Your parents may never care. Get some self help books or just pray and try to make yourself better.

Maybe your parents would let you go to the church or Mosque and talk to a religious leader. Its not the best answer in the world, but at least it may give you an outlet for pent up emotions and someone who may be able to give you better guidance.

u can talk to me. =] ohh ur agnostic. sister, try islam. read the Quran. pray to Allah. tht is ur problem. do this, and i gaurantee u u will feel better.

well, maybe before you try to tell your parents youn need to make yourself strong from the inside for such a situation. i mean you have to make sure you dont get depressed or anything due to them. if you feel your parents dont care for you or you dont get any attention or anything from them try that it shouldnt bother you. try not to think too hard about the situation because it will only just make you feel worse. well, from a personal experience of a friend having a similar situation he made up his mind to get out from home and go far and away where he could meet new people and after which he concentrated his efforts on working towards his goal. the only way he had of moving out was if he got placed in a good college for studies. he did. n has recovered a lot.

everybody has to move out of the house one day and go out on their own. but if this does not look probable to you try listening to good music or watching television. avoid harsh music like rock, jazz ets. its elevates one's mood swings very quickly. try listening to soft music and try to savor it. its the bst thing for anybody. similarly if u watch tv try not to watch things with violence or anything. try cooling down. watch some comedy stuff going on tv. basically try to distract yourself from thinking or pondering over the situation again and again. the more you think the worse it gets for you. so just relax.

Salam

I will make a prayer for you that things get better God Willing.
Peace and patience and if your parents don't give you the things you require, then choose a new role model but be kind to them
Insh'Allah Tahala

Don't know your problem fully to be able to diagnose and give you treatment, these sort of problems you should not disclose on the interent as they are very persosnal.

PINK SLIP
do not say that
i think you are in critical age
i wanted to know how old are you
to grow in middle east area is much far better than any other place in the world
yes there are many things to be done in your case
i would not go to that
i only wanted to assure you that you are very important to your family
there is some times some thing called generation gab
its when understanding comes to minimum between parents and kids
but stop crying and start to think
i like so to know how old are you
be blessed

Peace to you and the eternal light shine upon you InshAllah (Lord wills)

Suggest finding some neutral ground you can begin to rebuild your foundations. Something is in the way of course and you need to un-tie the knots that was made before you began to feel this. I hope you can ask forgiveness from them and then they will follow suit. They Love you unconditionally so find a good balance point. Amen

u feel like your alone honey your not you need 2 find someone to talk 2 try and think who and where and not that you cant you have a computer look up a help site coz if you want help babe you can find it i had a real bad up bringing and sometimes feel like I'm warped back there i felt no one was there so i went 2 the doctors and got help i no its hard when you feel no ones there and you just want 2 curl up and die so that the pain goes away but it doesnt until you deal with it. i dont like to say this but if your parents r neglecting you maybe you need 2 get out and seek home in care where u can get the help you need as it seem like your doing more damage staying there especially with no help i no it easy said than done but love your self and get some help in the end the help mite even help ur parents understand how you feel and in return they can support you and help u get out this hole you digging 4 yourself all the best honey

You need to consult either a good friend who you trust and allow them to see someone for you or go directly yourself, however this may be a problem as your parents may not let you.
Just a query but at school, you get time for lunch don't you? during this time could you not leave school and go to see a docter.
The vital piece to remember is that you cannot give up, you have to keep strong and no matter what they say/do you need to tell yourself to not let it phase you.

you feel alone I'm always alone I'm in the same spot as u i don't know how old you are but I'm 16 just email me and we can talk ill be praying for you!

Take care

Asslamoalikum,
I also live in Middle east. Dont be so sad of anything get in your life. Always trust on Allah and ask him for help. Dont cry. Cry is not good thing for any person. I also cry sometimes at night when i served a hard time but should trust on Allah and faith should be strong. He will make everything eaiser for us. Allah says in the Quran that whatever you get difficulties that is from your deeds (bad deeds) and whatever happiness in your life is from me. You should pray five times daily, read Quran daily and obey your parents. A man cames to a Prophet and said that i want to do jihad so, Prophet (pbuh) replied that do u have parents? He said : yes. Prophet (pbuh) said go and serve your parents. This is only for boys. Dont hurt others and be happy with your parents. Help them so, they will inshallah consider u. I hope. I will pray for u that May Allah brings happiness in your life.( Amin). For more help contact me on :
koolboy_yousuf@hotmail.com

"btw, i'm agnostic"

Well , I say thats the real problem

Excatly where do you live?
I live in middle east too , but its not really like that in my country , maybe you live in Suadi Arabia ??

i think u should complain to the police or just tell it face to face to your parents tell them do u care about me or not thanks hope i helped i live in middle east too and i can go out alone

hey ther! listen u need to chill out.make new friends at school!n do whatever u can to make urself happy coz dude its urlife n dont waste on wot otherz think.u cant get ur time back make the best of it!tc have fun