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Explaining to my parents that i need therapy. HELP!? |
I've been severely depressed for about a year and a half now (my teenage years of depression weren't as serious or self-destructive). I've hinted many times to my family that I need help, and have flat out asked for therapy once. They dismiss it as being overdramatic and over emotional ("emo"), which i find interesting since i rarely express my emotions or talk to them about my issues. (I have people to talk to, just not my parents) I know they love me and they really are good parents, but i really don't think they understand what depression is and how it's affecting my life. I know i need to be responsible for myself, but it's hard to take care of myself when I don't care if I live or die the next day. I'm not finanically independent. I'm employed and earning money, but i'm still on my parents insurance and dependent on them. I'm 19 so i consider myself an adult despite that i'm still dependent on my parents (sad, i know). Just thought I would clarify. Well, if you're being honest and you're serious, by what you've stated here, you are beyond your teenage years. This being true (if it indeed is), aren't you financially responsible for yourself at this point? Why would you even need to discuss it with your parents if you don't feel they understand anyway? I couldn't understand your problem until the last 3 words. You said your teens are passed and that they may suspect you have PMS so I thought "what have parents go to do with this, she is an adult". At last I see that the problem is not that your parents don't understand, it is that you want them to pay for therapy. It sounds as if you're out of high school but still living with your parents and financially dependent on them. Right? |
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