My parents are driving me insane!!!!!HELP!!!?

my parents never want to do anything fun and it drives me mad!!! I have to bribe my mom to even go to the beach by saying i'll do her homework for school..I ask my dad if he and my mom want to go visit about 1 hr away at my aunts house and its always no another time we are to tired or else I am on taxi call and have to stay here..they never want to do anything!!! I ask them and they always say you know what you need is some friends...and I have friends and it makes me mad when they say that..and depressed with myself..Its normal for a 16 year old girl to do stuff with her parents right??? So why do they say that..and they also say all the time..go clean your room instead..go do this and that..do you think they just want me to do more around the house and help out with chores like cleaning my room?? And they are waiting for me to get the hint??I am confused and becoming depressed...Help me!!

Parents drive their kids insane all around the country and the world. Get used to it.

It is normal to want to do things with your parents, but maybe you should see what kind of things THEY want to do. Ask them. They may have some mutually agreeable ideas for you to enjoy with them.

If not, I suggest that you spend more time with your friends and appreciate the attention that you do get. You got fed and housed for 16 years, right? That is something, and I bet you lived a better life than most of the kids in Africa.

yeah i do stuff with my parents just give them time to relax and say it'll get you to shut up if you do something with me this week. that usually works for me

your parents may really be tired..but if it is spending time with them u want then do stuff with them that they want to do then they might do stuff with you. Never get depressed just go out with your freinds..dont worry about wat ur parents think it ony matters what u think

A lot of times us parents are just so tired from work they dont stop and think that not doing anything with their kids are affecting them.
If you dont do a lot around the house, maybe you could pitch in a little more and give them a break and they wont be so tired and will do a little more. Maybe make a bargain of some sort with them. You clean and do chores for a week, if they will take you somewhere you want to go. See what they say to that.

PARENTS ARE ALWAYS LOOKING IN THE WRONG WAY THINKING THEY ARE HELPING YOU NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES THEY DID! SIT THEM DOWN & TALK TO THEM OR ASK IF YOU'S CAN ALL GO & SEE A THERAPIST TO TALK TO:) IT ALWAYS HELPS TO TALK TO A PERSON ON THE OUTSIDE! I WISH YOU ALOT OF LUCK BECAUSE IT MIGHT BE HARD AT FIRST:( GOOD LUCK TO YOU:)

I can understand this problem When I come home i m so tired from working all day I would get up at3am just so i could clean up the house and do other chores my kids wouldn't do. so i beg them to clean up or i would not do anything for them or with them it seems to help . i give them a Little chore list everyday takes them 30 minutes tops. now i m able to be with them more and enjoy their company more because i m not tired or mad at them .. just help out alittle if that's possible tell them you need to spend time with them ..your still young and they r pushing you away you need them .. you want to know what they think how they see the world around you .. whats their likes and dislikes . this is going to help you grow .. tell them this if that don't work .. then you r better off hanging out with your friends.. some parents get so wrapped up in life working and paying bills .. that they forget what they r paying the bills for ..to make your life just alittle easier ... so do your share too . hope things work out..