My BF is in Narcotics Anonymous & it seems shaky sometimes?

i had to photograph an artist & didnt tell my BF bcz i want to keep it to myself & focus. i didnt feel like answering ?'s comments. he ask if i'm taking nude shots. i said no, the guy sings. i told him i didnt want him to go with me bcz its a drinking crowd & he's in the NA program. he can pick me up when i'm done. i told him what time the show starts & ends. but it didnt go that way. the show started 2 hrs late. i texted to let him know what's going on. i ask if he felt comfortable in the club so we can be 2gether he said "no way". then he showed up surprisingly. he got mad bcz my coat was on a chair with the artist's coat. then he left bcz he didnt want to be around drinkers. he pick me up, he was mad & jealous & making comments that suggested "i go be with that guy" & other jealous stuff that made the night worse. we wanted to be 2gether but i had biz to do. The night ended with us breaking up. I know he's in sobriety but he was also JEALOUS. What was I supposed to do? Was I wrong?

If he is in recovery, then a nightclub can be a very dangerous place for him. I commend him for not staying there (his recovery must come first or everything else will turn to shite).
The jealousy act is a pretty good indication that he is feeling insecure and has issues (possibly of abandonment).

Remember that a great analogy for an addict/alcoholic is that they are an egomaniac with an inferiority complex. If he is working a program, he will talk things through with somebody-like his sponsor,...and then he will get his head on straighter and you might be able to calmly comunicate through the issue.

as for the questions what were you supposed to do & were you wrong? well----------hindsight is 20/20! do you feel you did anything wrong? do you have a track record of untrustworthy behavior? only you can truly answer your own query!!!

He's got issues, dump him!

This is a hard question. If you want to stay with him (assuming you get back together) I think I would just tell him that you have to keep your work life and home life separate. If he is insecure about you being with other men then it is a trust issue. He has to be able to trust you completely. He doesn't have any reason not to trust you, Right? He is probably going through alot right now and needs support from you. But you can't let him run your life either. Just let him know that you love him and want to be with him and if he can't accept that It's not your fault. I don't think I could tolerate anyone always looking over my shoulder and accusing me of things. Not to sound to bitc** but he should think about how lucky he is that you are sticking by him during one of the most difficult times in his life and he might want to think better of driving you away.