Miscarriage x2?

Im 19 and have had two miscarriages now the first i was very young and scared and i feel it was the best thing for me and it was meant to be this way, the second was a shock me, my partner and our families were ready and happy!
I know a lot of people have miscarriages but is their anyone out there who thinks the hosptials are out of order not looking into it unless i have a 3rd miscarriage!
sorry im having a rant but they also left me for a month to wait for me to have a natural miscarriage and it turned out to be traumatic I lost a lot more blood than average and i had to get rushed into hospital, It was so bad i still cant get my head round it!! I then got told by my doctor that they should have told me to get a D and C!!
I dont no if anyone agrees with me!!
just had to let it out!!

Sorry to hear about your loss. I found this on the web, and it explains why they won't investigate until your 3rd miscarriage.

I've put a link in to the website I found. It's in New Zealand, but I guess that the rules are pretty similar throughout the world.


This devastating condition, also known as Recurrent Pregnancy Loss (RPL), effects about one percent of the population. It is defined as three or more early miscarriages (before 13 weeks), not necessarily consecutive, (but all pregnancies must be by the same partner), or two late miscarriages (13 - 20 weeks).

Most miscarriages are caused by a problem with the particular foetus and are therefore unlikely to recurr. In contrast RPL is associated with reproductive problems with the parents, resulting in the loss of delicate but often viable pregnancies.

The most common cause of miscarriage is incompatible blood types

my heart goes out to you,hope things get better,.

My sister had 3 miscarriages and now she is about 8 months pregnant. Multiple miscarriage can be due to diseases like clamidia and others.

I had 2 MC myself. But I had a baby after each of them. I agree with you that it is not OK to wait till you had a third MC. I had myself tested and paid out of pocket to insure I did not have an infection which caused it. My sister actually had a muscle weakness which caused her to loose her babies. But they only checked after number 3. The babies where perfectly fine but her body just could not hold them. I think it is a crime and we as woman should demand that the cause is found.

First and foremost I'm truly sorry for your loss. I myself had a miscarraige 2yrs ago, but I was also blessed to have a little boy 6yrs ago. I really feel that u need to talk to your M.D. and get some test run and fine out if your body is strong enough to carry a baby. The hospital is not responsible for miscarraiges. The doctor who takes care of you is. The reason I say that is because I work in a hospital and I know the procedures. No one wants people to lose a baby, but sometimes things happen in our lives that we don't understand. It just may not be time for u to have children yet. Just be patient and pray about it, because you're still young and I wish u the best.

I'm sorry for your loss. God never likes death, even of unborn children. You seem to have accepted these deaths. This is a part of your grieving process. You may need to help the others involved heal.
The Doctor should have looked for problems even before the first miscarriage, but definitely after. Your body may not be able to support a baby, or there could be other issues. Then again, these two children may have died from independent causes.
I don't know your religious convictions, but I feel that I must say these things in conclusion. God loves you. He has a plan for your life. Your children, though dead, are alive in Heaven with Him. God desires a relationship with you. If you confess your sins, believe Jesus is God's perfect Son who died for you and trust God to forgive you, He will make you new. He will live with you. You will be His child.

MY answer may seem strange but, nature has it's way. You really can't look to anyone for answers here. None are really that qualified. Your time will come, relax, live your life. Things will be as they are meant, in due time.