I have menstruation problems.....and I need help!!!!!!!Help me please!!!!!!!Could you?

I'm 14 years old,and I first got menstruation when I was 12,but it is not regular...
For example..I have menstruation,and than i don't have it for 3 or more months...I just every month have something black and sticky on my underwear.Something like menstruation,but it is not..I know that's not normal...but I don't know what to do???PLEASE help me .........PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Actually, that IS normal for a young teen. It should become more regular and predictable soon. The "black and sticky" stuff is the lining of your uterus shedding, like it is supposed to. Eventually, there will be red blood along with it.

http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/growth/...
"It can take up to 2 years from a girl's first period for her body to develop a regular cycle. During that time, the body is essentially adjusting to the influx of hormones unleashed by puberty. And what's "regular" varies from person to person."

i suggest you go and see your local GP doctor. Cos that aint normal

your mom needs to make you an appointment with the doctor, let her know what is going on ok?

absolutely contact your doctor or talk to the school nurse at least.

Sounds like old blood that ends up on your underwear.

You need to see a Gyno to rule out any problems.You could have endometriosis.

To start with, I suggest you seek the profesional help of a doctor. Secondly, sometimes if you are very active, in sports per se... Your body might skip a month, but to skip three or more is a little odd... Go see your family doctor.

it is normal... you're still young...

dont worry

black= dark red that all

all i have for advice is tell your mom or go see a doctor

you should probaly see a doctor i never heard of that before good luck

Suggest you have your Mom or whoever make a doctor's appointment with a female gynecologist,. It doesn't hurt and is not embarrassing. That's what these doctors do several times a day.

For the first part it's pretty normal not to have regular periods at first. But as to the color you should probably see your doctor or ask the nurse at your school. It's hard to answer online without direct evidence. You need to see someone.

A gyno would probably put you on birth control pills to regulate your period, but that is a good thing since you are a slutola!

Your periods are irregular, which you know. It sounds like you are not ovulating (not a big deal for a girl your age). The black stuff is most likely dried blood. Sometimes when you don't ovulate in awhile, the lining dries. To make a gross metaphor...it's like a scab. Talk to your mom about taking you to see a gynecologist.

That is exactly what you should have. At your age your cycle has not developed to give a thick lining in the uterus - you are just starting out - so you get just a bit until your are up to speed, as it were. Black and sticky pretty accurately describes it. As you get older there will be red blood and a need for protection for a few days, but, like everything in life, you build up to it gradually. Keep track of it on a calendar and you will see a pattern and it will change over time. No big deal.

Peace!

it sounds like old blood not normal, could get an infection. you need to see a doctor.

if you can speak to your school nurse or nurses' aid, ask questions listen to their advice. Book an appointment with your family doctor or locate a free clinic in your area. I would not take adivce from anyone but a medical professional at this point. I feel you would be better served by doing this first and foremost instead of asking someone like myself on line.

Take care of this before it becomes worst. Good luck, many cherokee blessings to you dear!

This may not be typical, but it probably isn't exactly "abnormal" either. Irregular menstruation runs in my family, but I haven't felt that it is a problem.
Go ahead and have it checked by a doctor if you are worried about it.
If you have other significant health problems, they may affect your menstruation too.

some thing black thats not good, and any way it would look like brown on your pad, i check with the doctor some thing may be wrong do it now and make that appt, write away. please allso you can check on your computer about your menstruation problem, that may all so help to, good luck, dawn,

First, I want to tell you that having irregular periods is very sommon and very normal for a gal your age. It usually takes until the end of puberty to fully regulate your menstrual cycle. Several things can impact the regualrity of it ..
1. Being overweight. Hormones have to fight fat body ratios and do not reach normal levels in the body.
2. Eating disorders. If you are severely underweight, and "starve" yourself, irregular or missing periods are a warning.
3. Dietary changes.

Is this a new change in your periods, to have black blood clots?? If so, you really need to see your gynecologist. Don't be embarrassed, you can talk to them in confidence and your questions will be answered without ridicule. Do you eat alot of red meats and Iron rich foods? Remember, if you think somethings wrong...it is better to be safe than sorry.

The irregularity is completely normal for someone your age. Don't expect your cycle to be consistent till you are through the puberty/teen phase.

The black tar-like bleeding is not exactly abnormal... though it can be disconcerting. Many of us experience this, even as adults, from time to time.
I notice that when I am anemic, I have more of the brown-black bleeding as well as less of a flow and considerable less energy... and if I then take iron my menstrual flow turns red again. You may just be anemic (also fairly common for menstruating women) and you can have your PCP or Gyn check to see if you need to add iron to your diet.

you're probably fine. some people are just like that.