Whats some symptoms on having melanoma?

My husbands mom just died in March of melanoma, she had it on her arm 6 years ago, then it came back and went into her lungs and she had a tumor in her brain..It came back fast this last time,,anyways my husband is 41 and he is bald, so he gets sun, sometimes, but he has some spots and i dont like them,,,i told him to go to the derm office to get checked out,,,But he cant get in for 2 months, If he did have it, are there any symptoms he would notice? I also had it in 2004 on my leg, but i didnt have any symptoms, except black growing in a mole i had for 6 months....Thanks,,

Malignant melanoma arises from melanocytes in a pigmented area: skin, mucous membranes, eyes, and CNS. Metastasis is correlated with depth of dermal invasion. With spread, prognosis is poor. Diagnosis is by biopsy. Wide surgical excision is the rule for operable tumors. Metastatic disease requires chemotherapy but is difficult to cure.
The primary symptom of any skin cancer is usually a mole, sore, lump, or growth on the skin. Any change in appearance of a pigmented skin lesion over time is a warning sign. Also, watch for any bleeding from a skin growth.
The ABCD system may help you remember features that might be a symptom of melanoma:
* Asymmetry: One half of the abnormal area is different from the other half
* Borders: The lesion or growth has irregular edges.
* C olor: Color changes from one area to another, with shades of tan, brown, or black (sometimes white, red, or blue). A mixture of colors may appear within one lesion.
* Diameter: The trouble spot is usually (but not always) larger than 6 mm in diameter -- about the size of a pencil eraser.
The key to treating melanoma is recognizing symptoms early. You might not notice a small spot of concern if you don't look carefully, so perform thorough self-examinations on a regular basis.
Please see the web pages for more details and images on Melanoma and Melanoma of the eye.

Often, the first sign of melanoma skin cancer is a change in the size, shape, color, or feel of an existing mole. Most melanomas have a black or blue-black area. Melanoma also may appear as a new mole. It may be black, abnormal, or "ugly looking." If you have a question or concern about something on your skin, see your doctor.

Thinking of "ABCD" can help you remember what to watch for:

Asymmetry鈥擳he shape of one half does not match the other.

Border鈥擳he edges are often ragged, notched, blurred, or irregular in outline; the pigment may spread into the surrounding skin.

Color鈥擳he color is uneven. Shades of black, brown, and tan may be present. Areas of white, grey, red, pink, or blue also may be seen.

Diameter鈥擳here is a change in size, usually an increase. Melanomas are usually larger than the eraser of a pencil (1/4 inch or 5 millimeters).

Melanomas can vary greatly in how they look. Many show all of the ABCD features. However, some melanomas may show changes or abnormalities in only one or two of the ABCD features.

Melanomas in an early stage may be found when an existing mole changes slightly, for example, when a new black area forms. Newly formed fine scales and itching in a mole also are common symptoms of early melanoma. In more advanced melanoma, the texture of the mole may change. For example, it may become hard or lumpy. Melanomas may feel different from regular moles. More advanced tumors may itch, ooze, or bleed. But melanomas usually do not cause pain.

A skin examination is often part of a routine checkup by a health care provider. People also can check their own skin for new growths or other changes. Changes in the skin, such as a change in a mole, should be reported to the health care provider right away. The person may be referred to a dermatologist, a doctor who specializes in diseases of the skin.

Melanoma can be cured if it is diagnosed and treated when the tumor is thin and has not deeply invaded the skin. However, if a melanoma is not removed at its early stages, cancer cells may grow downward from the skin surface and invade healthy tissue. When a melanoma becomes thick and deep, the disease often spreads to other parts of the body and is difficult to control.

People who have had melanoma have a high risk of developing a new melanoma. People at risk for any reason should check their skin regularly and have regular skin exams by a health care provider.

I think that any spots, moles, aging, or otherwise should always be checked out at a Dr. and def. if its in the family. As far as symptoms I'm not sure exactly but I do believe its any spot that is discolored and or has hair growing on it. Get it checked and this way you don't have to worry.

Good luck.