Why can I not experience sexual attraction? Does it have to do with health?

I can say I was attracted to someone when I was 15,that was 5 years ago and I wanted to be with him. I haven`t experienced sexual attraciton since then. When I was in high school I wanted to fall in love,have a crush,but I just wasn`t attracted to anyone. I remember when I started takong dancing lessons last year,it was kinda funny and embarassing at the same time. I had to dance with men and I just couldn`t stand holding hands with them. I thought they were attractive enough,but I didn`t want them to touch me. I remember my first kiss,I felt nothing but disgust and run home to wash and rub my mouth. I have admired man, but I barely ever imagined us together. I still want to fall in love,get married and everything,but I ma a little afraid I won`t be able to...you know.
Of course I ma not lesbian,just to make that clear. Why can I just be normal and feel attraction when guy come close to me? What kind of problem is this?
Just to make something clear,I don`t have self-esteem problems.

Susan,you`re right, I wrote that I have admired men...yeah it could be that,but still I am confused about this one.

YOURE NOT ASEXUAL lol

sometimes i feel like this...except i am attracted to men.and not boycrazy like all the other girls. i get bored with kissing sometimes because i feel nothing when someone kisses me. thats how ive always been though? no clue why im like this. i thought there was something wrong with me but it turns out im attracted to MEN not BOYS. but still... im shy and i back away when they get close. its strange.

maybe youre like me attracted to men not boys?

http://www.asexuality.org you could be asexual?

i think it just one of those things. maybe your a very late developer. am sorry a cant be more informative.

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