Sex without a condom?

My fiance and I had sex last weekend without a condom (it was our first time without one) he finished inside me and everything. I'm on Nuvaring and follow the directions to a T. I'm not really nervous about getting pregnant but I feel like I should be? I'm just so used to using condoms. (I just found out I have a latex allergy). Am I just being silly, or do I have reason to worry?

I think some people are misunderstanding a bit... I said i'm NOT really nervous about it.... trouble is that he is. i guess hearing him worry makes me feel like i should be worried... i dunno if that makes any sense.

Then what is the point of birth control? Isn't that suppose to protect you from getting pregnant? I think you are just paranoid.

you are being silly, but why no try using some contraceptive foam just to be extra cautious...

scrog on..

no reason to worry , like you said you followed everything to a T

I wouldn't worry too much. Nuvaring is pretty effective. In the future you may want to also include a spermicide as added insurance.

Well if youre useing Birthcontrol the only reason I can think of to worry is if your boyfriend has a sexually transmitted disease. But since he is your fiance I figure you would've known about that already.

you do have a reason to worry because of your allergy. if you slept with your bf without a condom and your on your period then you have nothing to worry about but if you werent on you period, then you might be pregnant, ask the doctors and see what they can tell you.

The Nuvaring is 99% effective just like all other birth control. If you follow the directions to a "t" then I would say most likely your not. However, if you are real concerned, take a pregnancy test.

maybe your sub-conscious OR getting pregnant or some type of disease.

Hopefully your not, maybe you are just paranoid.
Just don't make that mistake again.

well if your using birthcontrol you dont need a condom unless you feel like you should use condoms for protection from STD's. It's better safe than sorry.

Using birth control like Nuvaring is very reliable. If you use it correctly and look at the percentages, it's comparable to condom use. I wouldn't worry too much.

BTW, there are alternatives to latex. You can go with the natural lamb condoms (which I personally think are gross and would never use), or the polyethalene ones. They are kinda crinkly but can actually be made very thing and strong, and they transfer heat readily so they're actually a pretty good alternative.

If you followed all the directions you should have no problem. I used condoms for years with my boyfriend, then I started taking birth control pills and I am doing just fine. I always think about it a little bit, if he finishes inside of me, but we have both agreed that it鈥檚 ok if I get pregnant. So I have no worries.

It's natural to worry. My wife and I went through the same thing when she started the pill. If you're really that concerned about getting pregnant, consult your doctor about layered protection (more than one method at a time). Also, there are some varieties of non-latex condoms out there.

As a side note, it may be difficult to convince your fiance to go back to using a condom after he's done it without one. Move quickly! ;-)

Worry accomplishes what? What can you do until you can take an EPT? Not much more than what you are doing though certain herbalist including Chinese Natural-Physcians can prescribe teas & elixers that are 'guranteed fixer-uppers.' Worry doesn't do a darn bit of good. Simply be prepared to deal with whatever happens and if whatever happens does happen you will have the energy & strength you need to deal with it. Worry only drains the well.

Peace......

)PS// The oldest & still most eficent birth control is the sponge & a strong d ***che afterwards preferably with some form of citrus, lemon or lime - - - (

Don't be nervous. You are using birth control so you'll be protected. Relax.

tell him he has no reason to worry and that if you the one who would have to carry the baby isnt then he shouldnt be

You both should not worry about it. As long as you are on birth control you should be fine. However, use a condom if you are worried about catching STDs.

why not take birth control pills i was on them for over thirty years with no problem. im assuming the nuvaring is something you insert. the pill is 100 per cent worry free

my suggestion is to try and find non latex condom's they do make them for the very reason that some people are allergic

if you are on birth control you probably have nothing to worry about but you should still use condom's

If you are happier using condoms use them. Non-Latex condoms are not difficult to find. I don't know about where you live but in the UK you can get them for free, the same as the latex variety, if you can prove you have a latex allergy.

Some women find that hormonal methods of contraception male them miserable (literally), so I always think it's worth checking out the alternatives before settling for what the doctors push (they get money from the pharmaceutical companies.... so go figure)

Being comfortable is key as far as I'm concerned, so good luck.

yes you should babay

Don't worry I have been on the pill for a long time. I have had sex with and without condoms and haven't gotten pregnant. I wouldn't worry myself with it.

well what is it that he's worried about? you being pregnant? you want to be pregnant but hes probably not ready right now, if that is the reason why hes worried, and thats your fiance, so maybe after you get married and get settled his mind will change or will be at ease about you getting pregnant, if you haven't already.

If you're used to it and it makes you feel better, there are latex-free condoms out there. Even so, with the condom and the NuvaRing, nothing's 100% except abstinence.

It is natural to be worried at first. After a few months when he realizes that you are not using a condom and not getting pregnant, he will relax.

I wouldnt be too worried. you are on a type of birth control and that has been tested over and over before it can even be put on the market. your fiance does have good reason to be worried though. The only thing i would worry about is if that .1% of pregnancy should happen is if you are ready or not to have a child.

Firstly, you are not being silly. Secondly, theres no need to worry.
His nervouness is rubbing onto you and maybe thats why you are feeling the way you are. Maybe he is not ready for kids yets, so my advice is to be more careful next time. But be rest assured Nuvaring is so effective and theres nothing to worry about.

you can use polyurethane condoms. but your ring should be alright for preventing pregnancy.

yes maybe u pregnant