Death ? ? :{?

My uncle just died of cancer that was practically every where, and now my other uncle, his brother, was just in a motercycle accident. The doctors have to keep him in, intensive care, it's really bad. If he dies then my family will be devistated, I just want to know what you guys would do in this type of situation.

I`m so sorry for your loss honey. If it was me I wouldn`t be able to stop the tears coming. The most important thing that you do now is not to keep it inside. Talk. To anyone, even a pet just let out all the pain inside. I`m sure with time it will heal. I heard that the most important thing to do is the opposite of what your feeling. When you feel you can`t talk, call a friend. when you want to hide in your room, go for a walk. Anything. I sure hope your uncle gets better. Go visit him or if you would prefer not to then remember all th good times youhad with both of your uncles. Good luck. xx

Grieve with your family. It is the healthy thing to do. Try to be available to talk to your family members and help out where needed. Try to get on with your life, set an example for your family to follow, the world will keep turning, and so you must all continue to live your lives.

My condolences go out to you in this tough time.

talk about it.
Go see him if you can
but TALK! talk to other members of your extended family
and laugh.
I know that seems tacky in times of tragedy, but I know from personal experience (I was the one in NICU (neurological ICU) for months) that just making someone who is seriously ill laugh, or smile, helps a lot.

If you believe in prayer, then PRAY. Believe me, it helps. There is a God out there who listens and answers prayers, just have faith, and trust that HE will answer your prayer. Then, just RELAX.....

I lost my Husband in March and my Dad in May. Pray for your uncle who is in intensive care and hope for the best. If he passes on your family will be very sad but we all recover eventually. I am hoping for the best for your uncle.

for me I would try to find a phsycologist. Seek grieving therapy. Pray. I would give u a big hug if I could. I see alot of this happening to me real soon. My sister has cancer that is in her lungs and she has stage four cancer. My husband has Prostate Cancer that has gone to his bones. My Mom is 87 and her body is cirling up as if she is in a cocoon. So I would seek therapy. I would seek a grieving counselor. I know I have a future to go through real soon regarding death. I know I am living in the last days of some of my family members. I try to stay in the moment everyone is still alive and I will cross that bridge when I get there. But when I do that is what I will be doing. Finding a therapist or group therapy for someone who have lost family members It is so sad . My prayers are with u. LH