Are incontinence pads an acceptable christmas present for an elderly relative?

Yeah, at the end of the day you dont want them dribbling on your carpet half way through the turkey.

Geez No ...

nope...

Don`t think so

No, they might think your taking the piss.....

No. If you want to buy them to help out, that's great, but don't give them as a present.

Only unused ones - have a bit of respect...

Yea in Tennessee its perfectly Okay I reckon

Just ask yourself this question. Would you like to get a Christmas present like that? I seriously doubt it. If you wouldn't be happy with it why would anyone else. You should get a more personal gift. If you can't think of one there is always gift cards. That way if they need the pads then they can buy them for themselves.

It's the thought that counts and buying such a personal gift shows thoughtfulness, although in this instance I'd stick with vouchers!

they are an acceptable present for anyone of any age i would think, especially at the festive season when the drink flows and accidents will happen. i'm sure they will be delighted. thanks for the idea(wondering how to make my own and save money)

I think not. It is a very embarrassing for elderly people. It is something they don't have control, highlighting it is unfair. It's not just an old peoples problem you know

A commode would be more Christmassy.

Depends (ho ho) on the relative. If you think they'll be able to see the humour in the situation and take it as a joke, then sure. I wouldn't give them as the only present though, not unless you want to get cut out of the will!

Hmm, maybe I'll get some for my dad this year...

yes only if they cant afford to buy them...have you seen the price these days.

yes, if someone gets you a brain or a facelift package for christmas!

Yes - if you don't ever want them to speak to you again. Take them out for a nice meal - or treat them to a Concert. They are embarrassed enough without you reminding them of the fact. Shame on you.

Only if they are incontinent!

Lets just hope your elderly relative totally ignores you this Christmas so that your nasty sarcasm doesn't affect them. Go out and get yourself a life you sicko !

it is not the type of present you buy that counts but it is how you buy it that makes all the difference.

You may have thought of buying a car to your elderly relative and deep down you are wishing that he crashes and dies. in this case what is the scope of buying it in the first place!!??

If you feel that you want to give incontinence pads as present and these you are giving from the bottom of your heart, then I do not see why we need to debate whether such present is adequate as a present or not??!! your elderly relative would still have to buy them anyway!!

Did you think the minty fresh toothpaste and mouthwash i brought you last Christmas was appropriate for your halitosis problem? Did it feel good when you opened it up surrounded by all your friends and family and they said " OOOHHH at last, now you can kiss us"? lol
I don't think buying people something that's a personal hygiene product as a gift is appropriate ....if they are truly poor and cant afford such products and you know for sure they use them and don't mind being open about their problem ...then i think ask if it would be OK....otherwise I'm sensing no Christmas invitations in your future.

Um No ...

I suggest a BOOTS Token might be more appropriate. Although it depends on how well you know the person, how old the person is and if at a good old age they have everything they need/want. A bit of research is needed here I think......and tact.

depends on how well you know her and if this subject has been discussed with you b4

Yes if accompanied by the sort of underwear to make the relative feel young at heart.