**(Dance: Bump & Grind) Is this a symptom of an impotence?

I'm a 17 year old male, and really worried about myself.

I like watching porns and masturbate (twice a week), and I do not have any problem to get my erection on when watching porns. And I'm not gay.

But for some reason, whenever I go to school dances, I cannot get my erection on when bumping and grinding. I mean my partner did not say anything, but I'm pretty sure she thought I was weird or gay or something. My penis is about 5.5 inches when erected, and the circumference is 5 inches.

Don't girls usually expect the guys to get hard when bumping and grinding?

But my partner at dance did have some big booty, so it was kinda hard for me to find the "mid-section" to rub on.

So do I have an impotence?? If not, then what is my problem?
Could it be some sort of stress or pressure that I might possibly be on?

you may just be nervous with girls or..... you just find boys more attractive for you. cheers!

no you must just be nervous , but you n]eed to focus on having a good time and not worry about getting hard .....and just enjoy yourself ,,,,,most girls wouold rather you didn't and just like them for them not there butts are other stuff.

Doing M- is Ok but reduce it to once a week and thereafter to once in two weeks.

STOP seeing prons at your age - it is not required at your age as it will polute your mind which should be more occupied with studies and games, they are the things which will ultimately help you in LIFE.

Re- not getting it during -'bumps/grinds' it is more of an anxiety problem - be care free.

Dancing is dancing. Not everyone gets erect even with grinding/bumping. Some women will find being frottaged offensive.Rubbing on someone with an erection during dancing may get you in more trouble than you ever dreamed. One day a girl may report you to the po-po. I kid you not. You are not impotent. Let it go and enjoy the dance.Your dance partner will feel safer around you than with Mr.Stupid B0ner. No erection is best during dancing of course. Try to back off the porn because your sexual partner isn't a porn star and all the junk those films show you is all BS fantasy. If the porn becomes your trigger for sex, a real person won't do it for you and you could get trapped;porn can become a fetish and alone you will stay. Have a great week. You are normal but a bit impressionable. Porn is a job not a reality.

well man stop seeing porn and masterbating for a while.ur prob ll be over