Impotence caused from a bad experience??

When i was really young, my first time with a girl, she was giving me oral and i came in her mouth and than tried to have sex with here right after. Well i cud not get it up cuz it had not been long enough after i came, i tried like 2 seconds after cuz i didnt know than, i was young. But ever since that day whnever i am with a girl i still cant get it up. I mean i have tried cialis and viagra and they do sumetimes work, but i cant be takin those everyday at my age and i cant predict when i will be having sex, it would just be too expensive. I am 100% sure that its from that bad experince that i cant, even when i drink or am drunk and cant even think of it i still cant. Is there any other way or anything i could look into to help me with this???

i can wake up with an erection and i can get it up easily when masturbating.....those 2 arent a problem......its just with a girl i have issues with it

It could be the drinking,try masturbating on your own and see if you can get it up
Watch porn and think about sexual things
Try staying sober,works better when your sober
Go to a psychologist for help and counciling

Hmm... Have you tried it on your own? Get some porn and try to get it up by yourself. If that doesn't work, maybe see a doctor. Possibly even a psychologist, who may be able to help you get over this fear.
Good luck!

try to stick to thoughts or fantasies you have when u r masturbating.

OK, erectile dysfunction (ED; can't get it up) can be physiological or psychological.

Men get erections when they dream. If you find yourself getting an erection in your sleep, or awakening with one, then it's not a physical problem.

That leaves psychological, which calls for counseling.

go talk to a doctor

a sexual therapist may help in your situation. i have found that you most likely have a lot on your mind or you are thinking of that specific incident. try to clear your mind, go into it with either a clear head or it sounds dumb but a clear goal and dont think about anything else. just try your best not to think that you wont get it up and past experiences.

This is possible or it could be you are using that experience as an excuse not to have sex with women. I don't know your age which could put more light on the subject. If you are in your 40's do get a check up. There are many underlying reasons for ED other than psychological connections to the distant past. Some medications can cause this problem, alcohol, diabetes, high blood pressure medications and even a sub-clinical infection. Low testosterone levels may be responsible. many of these causes are very treatable and really need to be ruled out. Examine your sexual identity. You may not be attracted to women. These are just a few ideas to consider. See your regular doctor first and then go to the referral. You may need a urologist, internist, neurologist, endocrinologist. or even a psychologist. This may just be a simple case of a urinary tract infection. Hang in there and get checked out. Everyone deserves a great sex life.Have a great week.