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Borderline Personality Disorder and lesbian sex?


I have always fantasized about having sex with another woman. A couple of weeks ago I met a bisexual woman on the internet and we started talking. We are supposed to meet tomorrow. She has made it very clear that this is just about sex and that she is not interested in any kind of relationship.
Now, on the one hand, I really want to do this, even if its just to "get it out of my system". On the other hand, I have borderline personality disorder (which means huge abandonment issues). How stupid would it be to go ahead with this? How much more will it mess me up?

If you have a desire for such sexual relations, then go for it. Sounds a bit insane, I would not want a sexual encounter with a total stranger- unless there is some sort of physical or psychological attraction- that's just me personally. Making something so clear as "it would be just sex" sounds a bit restrictive too- some things are just out of our control! The only way that you'll know for sure is to experience the fantasy and either regret it or continue that course of action. Everybody has some sort of personality disorder.

I doubt very much that you will find your peace in this relationship. It is like trying to find happiness in smoking a ciggarette... Even though you may enjoy it at the time, it won't last and it is just a substitute for what we are really looking for. You sound like a pretty deep person... so keep on searching for that equally deep answer. Substituting one issue for another is not an answer, it's just a step backwards. Find out what your real issue is and start looking for real answers.

Well if your not in therapy and meds i would say don't do it because it will mess with your head. secondly don't have anything to do on Christmas eve? its kinda odd day to do it on if u decide to do it at all. Its not the safest meeting people online for sex and u know that but then again sometimes u don't care. i hear ya there. personally i would wait till after the holidays and maybe go to a bar etc. i don't have a clue what is in your neck of the woods but here there are a few. hey think of it like this at least your thinking before your leaping that says alot bout your mental health at the moment.
hope this helps.

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