HIV symptoms, if you get one do you get them all?

I know the worse thing you can do is give yourself a self-diagnosis. But for the last few months I have been feeling very ill. Extreme fatigue, nausea, weakness, dizziness, headaches/jaw clenching, sore wrists, hands, knees and ankles...i saw a Dr. a few months ago and he told me I was depressed...i've been depressed before and was able to recognize it. I am not depressed. I WANT to work, go out, be with friends but i spend 90% of my free time sleeping. It's not normal.

I have never felt this way in my life. I'm hoping it's not HIV related. My specific question is this. When i look up early HIV symptoms, I have MOST of them, do they all come together? I don't have fever and i haven't lost weight.

I have an HIV test scheduled soon, along with a full physical (with a new Dr) but I can't help but stress as i am gay and sexually active, HIV is always in the back of my mind.

I do not know if you are aware or not but depression has many symptoms this includes physical symptoms. I have listed below the symptoms of the first onset of HIV and deppression. I would advise not to worry or try to diagnos your self, because as soon as you see symptoms that match yours your mind automatically goes into the What If mode. I hope this information helps you out. Good luck to you. HIV SYMPTOMS:
The incubation period鈥攖he time between when a person is first infected with HIV and when early symptoms develop鈥攎ay be a few days to several weeks. Flu-like symptoms are common in this first stage of infection, which is called acute retroviral syndrome. Symptoms of acute retroviral syndrome are often mistaken for symptoms of another viral infection, such as influenza or mononucleosis, and may include:

Abdominal cramps, nausea, or vomiting.
Diarrhea.
Enlarged lymph nodes in the neck, armpits, and groin.
Fever.
Headache.
Muscle aches and joint pain.
Skin rash.
Sore throat.
Weight loss.
Deppression Symptoms:
Most of us know about the emotional symptoms of depression. But you may not know that depression can cause physical symptoms, too.

In fact, many people with depression feel pain or other physical symptoms. These include:

Headaches. These are fairly common in people with depression. If you already had migraine headaches, they may become worse if you're depressed.

Back pain. If you already suffer with back pain, it may get worse if you become depressed.

Muscle aches and joint pain. Depression can make any kind of chronic pain worse.

Chest pain. Obviously, it's very important to get chest pain checked out by an expert right away. It can be a sign of serious heart problems. But chest pain is also associated with depression.

Digestive problems. You might feel queasy or nauseous. You might have diarrhea or become chronically constipated.

Exhaustion and fatigue. No matter how much you sleep, you may still feel tired or worn out. Getting out of the bed in the morning may seem very hard, even impossible.

Sleeping problems. Many people with depression can't sleep well anymore. They wake up too early or can't fall asleep when they go to bed. Others sleep much more than normal.

Change in appetite or weight. Some people with depression lose their appetite and lose weight. Others find they crave certain foods -- like carbohydrates -- and weigh more.

Dizziness or lightheadedness.

Actually symptoms you have when you initially infected from HIV is not that serious - many people think they have a mild cold. Also the symptoms don't last too long most of the cases.
So, it's wise thing you scheduled HIV test, but until then have a peace of mind! I'm not a doctor but I think you have about 70% chance not having HIV.

many people that are HIV+ do not develop full blow AIDS. there is still so much that is not known about it.

Early symptoms are usually less severe than you have described. The symptoms do not normally come all at once like that and the only way to be really certain is to be tested. In the meantime, you will not do yourself any good worrying about it. If you are going to be sexually active, it is important that you use protection, for yourself and any partner.

Are you using any recreational drugs? If you are, probably this is your body telling you to stop abusing it with drugs.

Also since you are sexually-active, you're probably have multiple infections with STDs. Get them treated.

There are also things you should know before you take the HIV test. Check out my sources, so that you'll make an informed decision.