Whats most heart breaking grief you have experienced till now?

Losing my baby on 2/13/02...he took 4 years to concieve.

My friend passing away 7 years ago.

Losing my husband of 38 years to cancer...

that whit wumen I thought i did it with was just a light skinded puerto rican :(

Coming to face the reality that my father molested me for a good portion of my childhood. That he took my innocence. That I was sexualized when I was five years old. That I've suppressed it all my life and am dealing with it now, having to focus on myself and my problems is probably the hardest thing I've ever done.

My grandpa dying of cancer. But I'm sure more heart breaking grief will come along later.

coming home from school for lunch just after starting second grade and being told my mother was dead - then sent back to school.

My fiance of nine years (who I had known for 20) always wanted to spend sometime in japan....so i finally aquisced and said "alright....I'll be okay if you go to japan to study for a year"....so I wrote a letter to get him a scholarship, gave him the rest of the money and a not long after he met the woman he married.

that and being cheated on....I have to say thats a tie...having a BF in recovery go out on a crack binge....none of those are good

when i came to know the reality that my bro sexually abused n took away my innocence.i m trying to overcome it but i can't.a lot more and complex prbs.i m never able to understand which is the most herat breaking grief bcz i hav a lot of griefs.

My miscarriage when I was already 16 weeks along.

My mom passing away four years ago.

Losing half my city to a hurricane, got demoted in the class I worked my butt off, failed for the year by missing too many days, dropped out, my boyfriend kissed my best friend, my dad has stage 4 heart disease, my mom became overly religious and my dog Baby, my best friend, died.


All this in less then two years.

Losing my father and my best friend to cancer in the same year.