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Will this part of grief ever go away?


Ever sinse they died, I haven't felt like anything is as it should be. Nothing feels as good as it used to. Birthdays, Christmas...
New Year was the worst.
People don't seem as great as they used to, food doesn't taste as good... Does this ever go away? Will the beauty in things ever come back?

it is perfectly normal to feel this way, its called emptiness after the initial feeling of grief has now past , you are seeing things through eyes of a different person,someone who has lost someone close to them ,will always feel like this and you feel like nothing matters anymore , Everyone grieves differently things will get easier , and in time you will learn to laugh and smile again, without feeling guilty good luck , i have been through this myself and recently xx

My husband died almost 2 years ago and it is getting easier. I think that you just have to take each day as it comes and try to deal with it. The joy in your life will come back because time will eventually heal you to the point that you can enjoy each and every day. So sorry for your loss.

Oh sure.It comes and goes,like time and tide waits for none.
Time is a best healer.Pray to GOD for mental strength and forbearance.

It will subsides in due time, philosophically, the life that is... we died and another being born.. live with it and dont let it take your life away

Sweetie, it hurts and part of that pain never goes away. I am not sure who you lost but it doesn't matter. In 1999 we had 23 deaths in 6 months. I still think about that year everyday. I know they are with God and it makes it easier to take. I am making a memory quilt and often laugh and joke about the dumber things they did or the funny things they said and did. You may need to talk to a bereavement counselor if you can't get past it. You will go on. If you have God in your life maybe you can talk to a priest or minister. Try to encompass the "good"things in life and stay busy.. If you need to talk send me an e-mail. I am here for you. I understand and feel your pain.

you WILL feel better eventually.
in the meantime, one foot behind the other, keep living, keep walking, and allow yourself to feel whatever it is you feel.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Things will get better, I promise. It is very important that you work through your feelings on loss, and really deal with the death, do not just bottle up your feelings, it is self destructive. When my father died, I found it very helpful to talk to a therapist to help me really work through everything I was feeling. I definitely recommend the same to anyone else suffering with a loss.

I promise you that if you work through your feelings, life will get better again. You will learn that life goes on, and there are plenty of good things still out there to feel happy about.

Dealing with death is never easy, but it will get better, slowly but surely.

Short answer, yes.

I'd like to tell you that everything will be the same as it was before, but it won't. It will get easier, at first it will be minutes, then hours, days and weeks. There will always be times when your heart breaks all over again, but it won't be all the time, and it won't hurt as much. Sometimes it's almost a sweet ache, like your loved one stopped by to say hello.

It's not easy and it's not fast, but it does get easier.

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