How can I deal the grief of losing treasures???

OK well today I was shelling and eating cacao beans (raw chocolate beans) and came across two that were twins! There were two beans in one shell. I thought it was one of the coolest things I've ever come across. I left it on the plate with a bunch of other beans and shells and didn't come back until later today, and found out that it had disappeared! My dad was over today and said he ate one, so he had to have eaten that special one with two stuck together! I was so mad because it was so special to me...

ALSO, years ago I found a SIX-leafed clover (it must have been like siamese twin clovers or something) and I put it in a dictionary under "clover" and then sometime later (I think it was a few weeks later) I looked in the dictionary and found that it disappeared!!! And now this...

I can't stand it when I find priceless treasures that just disappear! I know there's probably much worse things u could grieve over but it still makes me really irritated, especially since it happened twice

I've found three peanuts in one shell before. Pricless treasures are the coco bean and the clover? I'd think the priceless part was seeing your father. Family is always worth infinty more than any material possesion.

I think if you have to seriously grieve about something, at least make it something that is worth grieving over, like people dying, losing a good job or all your money, having your spouse leave you....

What you're talking about is irritaion, not grief,( defined as intense emotional suffering caused by loss, misfortune or disaster; accute sadness)

I'd think of it this way: Father was over, and he found a coco bean and ate it. Father is hungry and likes coco beans. You have a Father. Be thankful for what you DO have.
As for the clover, I can only give you the exapmle of every book in my house being filled with old, dry leaves that my mother found when she was a girl (From all over the world), and I can't tell you the satisfaction everyone in my family had when we got to rid our books of the crunchy leaves. Leaves in books can drive people insane.