Mentally ill schizophrenic and disabled wants more children.?

what do you think of a mentally person who is disabled and the state took her other two children they are in foster care 3 and 5 yrs old. she meets this guy at some community center just a couple months ago she thinks she is preganent. i know her she set this guy up.im in the same situation only i have know children but i still can. should i feel bad that its not me.

i don't know but if your hot feel free to set me up

It is not fair to the baby to be brought into a world when the parent cannot even care for the kids she has. The fact that she has mental illness is not the main issue. Caring for the kids she has now is the more important thing. Kids are disposable. When one is taken away you don't go get a new one. Her actions are irresponsible and selfish. She should consider what she is doing and if you are her friend, you should talk to her about it.

Maybe your maybe pregnant friend has now got her act together as far as raising children and she can now successfully raise children. As to feeling bad that its not you, what is the big deal about having more children? Be happy you are who you are, a person that already has children she loves and raises well. Also, you can be proud of yourself for you. You sound like you are regulated with medicine for your disease and you are working within the boundaries of your disability.

Wow. You need to call your therapist/doctor. Should you feel bad it's not you who is pregnant when you can't even take care of yourself, let alone kids? Go get your tubes tied.

It's unfortunate that she has decided/allowed herself to have another child, but she probably isn't the brightest cookie around, and she must have some "issues." Hopefully social services keeps track of her. She sounds like somebody you don't want to hang around very much.

You are much better off not having kids. I know some ladies who lost their kids because they couldn't care for them, and even tho they were able to maintain a good relationship with the kids, they were devastated. I don't think they were sick (or not as much) when they had the kids, tho.

I know where you're coming from. I don't have kids because I've got bipolar really bad, and it tears me up. I'm 42 now, so it will never happen, but I went thru a big crisis over the thing. I can see how others with serious mental illnesses struggle over the stress of their kids, tho, and all I can see is tragedy choosing to have kids when you have such a tough illness. That's a poor choice, and you'll always be struggling with poverty on top of illness on top of the stress of taking care of kids which is often almost too much for people without mental illness.

Basically if it is a set up the guy would end up with the child because the state has declared her unfit they always try to keep the child with the biological father. However I have seen cases where the state steps in and orders an abortion. Don't feel bad about it, that would have put you in a complicated mess and the other guy is about to find out. Best thing to do is keep away from people like they they are irrational and the child may inherit the disease who knows? It was fate or God's will it wasn't you!