Can someone tell me whats wrong..or at least talk to me?

i feel lost and hopeless ever since my mother passed my life seems to be going down hill.when she passed i was forced to move to a foster home until i get a whole bunch a legal stugg tooken care of which could take months.i feel unloved and wanted my mother was all i had.no one tells me i love u.ask me how was your day.u know the simple stuff u take for granted everyday but when its gon its true u do miss it and no one can treat u like your mother.nothing seems to make me happy the stuff that once did.if i go outside idk why but i get sad and depressed.all my self confidene went down the drain.i jsut like to stay inside not really even thinkabout anything.just sit watch t.v and come on line.i dont even cry anymore even tho my world as died..seems like the world agaisnt me ....i cant get in touch with reality.i feel like a turtle kinda...i day dream constantly half the time i dont even know about what i just get losed in my head my dreams..that seems to make me feel so calm...

I am sorry for your loss. My Father died when I was young.

I care about your day and how you are..... nobody should feel alone in this world.

Do you have any Aunts or someone that you can confide in? Can you seek out a mentor, someone to just spend time with you? Seek out a Church.. most have the most AMAZING people and they will welcome you with open arms.

Please seek out some help. A therapist may help you to deal and sort out your feelings.

We all need someone so PLEASE reach out and help yourself to feel better. Their are so many people in this world who care.

Try to eat right and exercise.. they can really help to improve the way that you feel.

You say that you "can't get in touch with reality". I know what you mean.. I suffer from an anxiety disorder and that is a symptom. It can also be brought on by PTSD. Please see a DR. People CAN and WILL help you.

Hugs,
Heather

don't worry life goes on my sucks then gets better then sucks again i still have my parents but most of my friends are gone or in prison i have my girlfriend and that's it i now live in Mexico been here for two years i don't talk to my family or have any friends but i know it could all ways be much worse fell free to email me if you would like

I havent had anybody directly die in my family yet and I know that you have to be hurting but I think you need to be strong and think of what your mother would want you to do if she was still living. she would want you to continue on and live life. I hope this helps.

First of all I would like to say I am very sorry for your loss. You really need to talk to an adult, and tell them your feelings, you are grieving, and you should be! You lost your mother, you should really talk to your foster parents, or a school counselor, teacher. One of these people should be able to help you! I am glad that you are reaching out. Take care!

sounds to me like u've got ur self on the depression slope lol but dont worry take this next right climb up some n u'll meet me xD am on my way back up to so to speak ... anyways thats another story... u r alone grieving and it can be a really nasty time try to think bout the good times u n ur mum had it may bring tears but tears are good they show u r still U !! as for ur self esteem and confidence try finding that again xx if u got yahoo mess add me klbabydynamite is my id xx we can get through it together if u want xx ur mum wouldn't have wanted u to lose the plot she was unable to stay with u in life but she is with u always in mind spirit and soul and will help u every step on ur way for years to come xx i kno what u mean bout no 1 can treat u the same as ur mum lol no 1 will take her place but u will find love in another form try a cat or a dog maybe something for u to take care of the same way ur mum did i hope everythin is okay and just keep ur head up high xx and a sentence that makes me smile ... KEEP UR PECKER UP!! LOL maybe it will work for u too lol mwah take care

im really sorry. it takes a long time to get over the death of someone close to you. the grieving process you decribe is natural. all i can say is take care of yourself. reality can wait, until you are ready to face it again. if you want to, you can email me.

Nothing is wrong. It is normal. You have had a very significant loss with the passing of your mother. You are in grief. Grief is inevitable.

Your local hospital can refer you to Grief Support groups. I know. My husband died three years ago. Immediately after I was introduced to a Grief Support Program offered by a local Hospice Center at various community locations.
I learned so much there. One of the handouts was a list of grief symptoms. The most helpful was learning that it was normal and inevitable to experience all that was happening and what I was feeling. It was a safe place to let my feelings show. Grief is released when expressed.

I was no longer alone because I was with others who were going through the same thing.
It is not something that we can avoid. Rather, we go through.

I liken grief to Ocean waves. They may come in big and strong and frequent. Gradually they become smaller and further between but then again a couple big ones may come but always they get smaller and further apart. And then calm and peace with little ripples now and then.

A little note: Don't feel guilty about feeling good.

Hi! You know? Your'e not alone. Besides God and your mother watching over you, you have us here on the internet! We're real people connecting to real people. Some on here aren't serious or even sane! But, a majority of us are people willing to reach out to others in their time of need. And I would hope if I need someone other than my family and friends, a friend on the internet could lend an ear or advice! You have every reason to be depressed, my dear. I hope your foster parents are wonderful to you like you deserve. Have you talked to a counselor about your sadness? Your daydreams are your brain's way of soothing you, so it's okay to get lost in them for now. Your mother has gone to be with God and someday you will be by her side. But you know she needs you to carry on. You don't have to a rock right now. Let yourself mourn. Take one day at a time. Think in your daydreams about your passions and your future. The one you'll marry and the beautiful children you'll have. Wghat are your interests? Animals, books, building things...I don't even know if your a boy or girl! I'm a 48 yr. old woman with a husbabnd, kids, grandkids.....and a tarantula! If you would like a friend, you can always e mail me ok? Hugs to you child! oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...

umm no: i am very sorry for your lose i just read your message and it hit home to me today would have been my daddy's birthday honey there is nothing wrong with you!! its normal what you're going through i'm glad you are reaching out and letting your feelings out there are a lot of people that love you out here!! i am crying with you its a very hard thing to go through i daydream too its a comfort and it calms the hurt feelings you are never alone GOD is with you xoxoxoxo how is your day going for you today? im hugging you right now put your head on my shoulder and cry as long as you need to!!! i'm here to listen to you anytime any day any hour your dear mother is'nt far from you she can see your life and feels your sadness you are loved and wanted please keep reaching out there are many hands that will hold yours e mail me if you would like to from my heart to yours xoxoxo joyce