I keep posting questions here just because I want someone to talk to me.
I have left my foster home and i live alone now. I dont have any friends and I never knew where i came from so i have no family either.
I have got a job three nights a week in a restuarant serving dinner and cleaning tables. They dont like me. People call me all kinds of names because i dont have a family. I dont even know my real name or birthday.
I just want someone to care about me. I want someone to miss me when Im gone away. I want a family. Its not fair. Why did this happen to me?
I really feel like just killing myself tonight. I have pills and even so. It would be probably months until anyone would even notice i was gone. Would it hurt very much if i swallowed some paracetamol. I know i would have to take the whole pack. how long would it take? I dont want to be in pain. i am 16 years old How old are you? Where are you? I sent you an email. I hope to hear from you very soon. Woah! Don't you be so silly.
I will talk to you. Would you like to email me - I will reply.
I am worried that you have just opened yourself up to all sorts of stalkers and weirdos through this post.
Be careful. Not the answer dude, Your here for a reason..Tell those who mock you to F*ck off.. Time will bring both sadness and Happiness..I have a family of 7 brothers and sisters and believe me its not all cracked up to be what they say... I also live alone and I never see my family but I see myself as the Captain of my own Ship and I will navigate it through the stormy waters of life till I reach calmer waters..And I find that the waters change throughout my life so dont crash onto the rocks and sink, just keep navigateing and you'll be ok.. ah you poor thing
(whatever you do DONT take paracetamol) awww honey!! Do you have yahoo messanger?? I was looking at some of your other questions, and it says you have a boyfriend and family, cant you spend time with them? Talk to them about your problem? I hope you get the help you need Dont Kill yourself life is to precious, try websites to get some friends, are you on myspace? facebook? ive met alot of people from this sites, and we meet up for weekends away sometimes and have a laugh also try islandoo.com, try going to social events a club or something is there nothing your intreseted in? Why give up on life? theres so much to do, so much to see why not just move somewhere new pick up a hobby, learn some skills to get a better job. Lifes a really good game which you can't play when your dead. Live life see what happens. It doesn't matter what your name is or when your birthday is you know who you are or who you want to become.......make it happen, live life oh hell no please.....tell me how can i reach you???? "it's nice to for a white wedding" listen to some billy idol overdoses are generally a very painful way to go. set yourself up a birthday, pick any day you like, make it your birthday. Family is not all that great, most of the time they just piss you off and dissappoint you. get some friends, maybe get a different job where some nice people work. get a damn sense of Humor, you're gonna need it. remember that aftr every dark night is a brighter day, keep your head up, and make yourself If your looking for someone to talk to You can contact me at
dznefrek@yahoo.com. I might not be able to help but I will be glad to talk to you. I don't have friends either.
I can't wait to hear from you! You are only 16, and like many other 16 year olds you think that the world is against you. You are wrong. If it were true why would someone hire you for a job. There are many out there who think the world of you, it's just that you don't see it. Don't worry this feeling WILL pass, and you will be happy. If you need any advice or someone to talk to feel free to email me. Steve Are you serious?
You shouldn't kill yourself.
You don't necessarily need a family to give you an identity.
You probably should speak with someone in the mental health field.
Good luck. I am not one to preach religion, but you need to go talk to a priest and get a differant perspective on life!! Everything that happening in our life and everyone around us lead us to the complete person.
Take it and think positive.
Try to make more friends with those who have same interest with you and respect you; Try to learn a skill so that you can earn a living with it; Turn the negative situation into positive situation.
When you think it is an ending, it may be a beginning of your life. Please don't be taken over by this feeling. I know there's more out there for you - you have a lot to give!
If you have people around you who put you down or make you feel bad get as far away from them as possible, but please don't think of taking your life - it's the most precious gift you'll ever be given. dont do anything like take pills there is always someone out there that would love to have you for a friend can you flat share instead of live on your own? that way you would have company good for you you have a job is there anything you would like to do for a job? maybe full time during the day? if you get in touch with a foster home help line they maybe able to help you trace your past if thats what you want to do I feel sad i can not help you more but good luck to you in all you do.
xx life is short allready u have to take what u see as the bad points and try to see the good in them all u might feel lonley
but there is places and people that will talk to u if u ask u need to find what u are missing in your life and take your time to get them it will come to u if u look hard enough take your time .if u want to talk add me on mistermallorca@yahoo.co.uk
be strong and u will be fine No you can't be serious. Whatever you lack in life God is everything to those who lack. Why do you hate yourself? there are people undergoing difficulties more than you, than you can believe. You should thank God for who and what you are today than just coming up with this sometimes we make God wonder what is wrong with us. Sorry mate, God loves you. People are calling you all sorts of names but God has a good name for you pray to God and he will reward your prayers. We are told by prayers and supplication we should make all the things known to GOD and with thanks giving too. Thank God for your life and even for being alive you've got so many things to thank God for my dear. Just thank him for the little and he will provide you with what you lack. I love you with the love of our lord and God, and he does love you most. Old enough to be your Mom - but I am happy to talk.
You are welcome to email me.
Unless you where dumped at birth - someone in the system knows your name and birth date.
Stop telling people your story if they are picking on you just smile and Pretend it is really none of any ones business unless you make it so.
Without someone close you will need to Create a family.
You can volunteer at the homeless shelter and make those less fortunate your family.
Life is not fair. We are all born to a path. We walk this path of life and make it a GREAT life or a S h itty life. You make it what you want it to be. And sure there are obstacles you must overcome - but we all have our own obstacles to overcome.
Go volunteer in the Children's Cancer Ward -----
You have been given a wonderful gift ----------- LIFE
Those children do not have that option --- All they have is the pain of the treatments and HOPE.
Keep your head up
email me if you like. Life can sometimes give us a raw deal, and apparently more so in your situation. When you get crapped on again and again, it's tough to keep picking yourself back up. There are good people around, but unfortunately, sometimes the bad people seem to outweigh the good. Sounds like you've been around, and already pretty wise to people, so I'm not gonna say "well, it'll get better soon", cuz who knows realistically if it will or won't?
So try this! Volunteer to help kids or elderly people. Yea, it may sound dumb, or might make you wanna say "who the bleep bleep ever helped me?" Honestly, helping people who need help accomplishes two things. It gives them the help they need, PLUS, give you a warm feeling in your heart. Well, it does me, anyway.
Now you may wanna know where? Hmm, maybe a soup kitchen, or maybe one of those people that drive (if you have a car) cancer patients to their treatments, or a Big Sister to a kid, or just go talk to tenants at a rest home. There are plenty more. Just don't get discouraged, and I hope I don't sound like an idiot.
I wish you luck! Take care! I kind of know how you feel, it isn't nice being lonely and I myself have tried to commit suicide, I took pills when I was 13 years old thankfully I didn't know you had to drink alcohol with them so I was OK. I someone's get so down and feel so alone that I cut myself. I wouldn't suggest doing it. I have done it recently because I feel that I have no-one who is there for me no real friends and my family don't understand. It is hard doing things alone trying to make friends etc. I have a good job and the people aren't nasty but they never want to socialise so I feel like all I do is go to work then go home then do it all over again until the weekends when I feel particularly worse than normal.
After hurting myself a couple of weeks ago (The first time in nearly 5 years) I knew I had to do something.
I am planing to go travelling (Alone) I am trying to get a part time bar job so I have some experience and hopefully can work while travelling. This is way out of character for me and a very hard thing to do going alone but I think it is the only chance of meeting new people and making friends. I'm not saying you should do it but just go out alone try and find a new job join a club anything you can so as you have a chance at meeting new people, your pain is only visible because you have nothing to take your mind off it.
I hope you will be OK and realise that life is worth living if you try hard enough to live it!! Hi,
You sound genuinely desperate (unlike some of the pillocks on here pretending to have problems just for the attention.) I know you might laugh at this idea but have you thought about joining the scouts? They take people (boys and girls) up to 18 and i know it sounds like its for kids but its not. And when you get too old for it you can go on to be a volunteer and help other kids. There are so many activities to join in with and lots of people you can be friends with. You can learn many skills and experience lots of new things. You can find your local scout group online.
Alternately, have you thought about volunteering to help other trouble teens in the same situation as you?. You have been through it and survived and i'm sure your experience could help a lot of people. Contact your local council and ask for info.
Keep us informed on how you are doing. Some people on here do genuinely care. x I think you do need someone to talk to and help you through these issuse and emotions you have. The website below is for children but they maybe able to point in the right direction. Good luck Listen to me, look at all the people that have responded to you and so many of these people don't know you and care so I am about to state somethings to you and I want you to seriously listen and think about what I said and what everyone else has said.
I know exactly how you feel because this morning I was feeling like crap and wanted to kill myself and last night I cried for an hour in a half and it's more to my story but I just want you to understand first that it is people that understand you because we go through similar things.
Now it's cool that you aren't in a foster home anymore but your only 16 so where do you stay if your by yourself? Please do not live with any boys or people you do not know because they will abuse and take advantage of you just because your young and down.
As far as having friends and a boyfriend yeah there cool and everything but let me tell you something people come and go in our lives like that. So do not allow the fact that you are alone to get you down because it feels even wrost when you were cool with someone and then out of no where they leave you. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF AND FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE! I'm sure you are a great person and have so many great things you want to get into baby girl go do them by yourself you are free now go and explore yourself. You have to love yourself first before anyone else can.
When you out in the streets keep your personal business to yourself because not everyone wants to hear it or are willing to help. At work do your job and leave do not talk to none of the b's you work with and when they speak on you defend yourself do not allow anyone to make you feel less then what you do because of what your going through because like I said everybody is going through something it's just some people put it out there and others don't. But trust me they are no better then you.
Take advantage of the fact that you work in a resturant you can talk to the customers even if it's small conversation it's a start and you never know God could bring a person in there that could befriend you and always remember GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELPS THEMSELVES and so you have to make the effect to meet people and then God will start to send you the right ones. Ask customers what they might be doing on the weekends just to see what you might can get into. And I would prefer for you to talk to adults (females) because they could probably help you and teach you how to be a young lady.
I know you want a family but unfortunally these are the cards you were dealt why would you want the family you had when they abandon you don't go chasing them my family is no good they came and jump me so just because they called family don't been mean they about something you can build your family through people that you start to build relationships with but only people that make you feel good and are postive.
As far as your b-day goes like one poster said make your own day whatever day you want sweetie this is now your life and your young so take control. Stop stressing about wanting people to come to you start to take care of yourself. And another thing since you are 16 I hope your in school and if you not you need to be asap because one it will teach you things, you will be surrounded by people your age and helpful teachers and couselours not to mention homecomings and different events. You can start a whole new life just by going to school IT WILL HELP YOU so much.
And lastly if you don't want to be in pain then don't kill yourself because it will be painful. From experience I took pills to try and kill myself and my nose started bleeding and I started to shake uncontrollable and couldn't speak or stand up with out assitance and I would hate for you go through that because even with all that I'm still here God wouldn't let me go and I wouldn't want to test him again so don't.
And not to push religion on you but I'm a Jehovah's Witness and I love God he can change your whole life and if you can go to a Kingdom Hall or speak with a witness they would help you so much so think about that and try to find someone and I would love to talk to you and help you so if you want you can email me anytime you can start a family here contact all the people that responded to you that said you could and I hope that you seriouslly listen to all the advice and I pray for nothing but the best for you sweetheart. i know how you feel to some extent and no paracetamol is not the way to go
i am 15 and i took an overdose cos i thoguht i couldnt go on anymore
to be honest i dont think i can still , but paracetamol hurts like hell
i was ill for about a week and i thought i was gonna die a horrid painful death, and i thougth initially that it would be quick
then i was throwing up and everythgin
if you need a chat
honestl i am here
:)
i know how it feels to have no one
and i would like someone to
xxx
i hope your life turns out how it should be i cant understand u totally, because u r fostered but i have a mam n dad n separated who r dysfunctional so i am alone also. I have a boyfriend but that is not everything. I am so happy but part of me will always be like u r. I have tried the paracetamol way so many times n I am lcuky 2 b here. Please try & talk 2 someone. U r only young n life is worth it I promise. Take care n keep in touch xx Don't be silly. E-mail me, whenever you like babes, my address is:
angelstarjrw29@hotmail.co.uk
I will always be there for you. I've been through the mill & back lately, I will tell you about it soon. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always there. Remember that. xxx listen i understand your situation....im 16 too... Im really upset of your situation if you ever need to talk to some one send me and email to this yahoo email adress or to angelcriminal@hotmail.com or call me 07896980227 dont worry you would not be alone for long some1 good will come to your life and care about you... hi ya chick id be more than happy to chat to you,i know your feelin low at the moment but things will get better, i have to little ones but id always find time to chat to you x I am so sorry you are feeling this way.
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