What do you do if you have physical imperfections, disfigurements, injuries that nothing can be done about ?

who will want me i think..

im a 30 year old borderline personality sufferer...and one of my goals in life is to meet a loving partner..., an attractive lady. amoungst other goals and things.

my physical problems are 2 missing teeth.....torn ankle ligaments.....a cooked little finger due to an injury......damaged nerves in my knuckle...im overweight...im bald.....i have fissures and cracks on the skin on the head of my penis.....wrinkly skin....that im presently investigating with my doctor.
my ankle twists easily and i go over easily due to the torn ligaments.
im thirsty alot, worrying if i have diabetes...im so physicaly imperfect.

i worry how will i get an attractive partner?

what does anyone think ?

remember that nobody is perfect! The things that you have can be fixed, or modified to the point where it is not noticed by others.
The f front teeth can get a partial. You do not have to go around with missing teeth. It can be fixed.
The other stuff can be fixed too, or managed. Like I said nobody is perfect, and everybody is self conscience .
Just take care of yourself, then when you have self esteem you can think about dating . Take one thing at a time though.
Things that are important always takes work at. do not sell yourself short.

Any partner who's worth you for how you look isn't worth going for, go for a partner who loves you for you.

Why do you want an "attractive partner"; if everyone thinks like you, you haven't a chance!
At the ripe old age of 30 you should have learnt that beauty is on the inside!

You are pointing out your imperfections and you want someone who is not shallow yet you require a person to be "attractive" to be a suitable partner. Perhaps you should lower your pre conceived standards and pray that you can find someone who will do the same. I personally think that beauty is on the inside and I hope your inside is beautiful enough for one to see past any outside flaws.

We are all imperfect, true beauty comes from within. To be attractive and loved by others you must learn to love yourself, accept who you are and make the best kind of life you can for yourself. When you learn to look past both your and other's imperfections, you will feel better and more confident. confidence, sense of humour and empathy are valuble and attractive traits. Love will follow in its own time, many physically ugly people find love because their character shines through

It seems like you have a lot of problems.
Is there anything positive about yourself?
What can you offer other people.
Can you be a good friend?
Do you care about others?
If you do not show people you like and care about them,
they will not be able to care about you.
People will become drained if their needs do not get met the same way you have needs to be met.
It takes two to tango.

As someone else already quoted about our getting an "attractive" lady. Already you are not only prejuding yourself but you are also judging other people on the fact that they be attractive.Do you talk with a therapist about the physical issues that you are having problems dealing with? Some suggestion that I would offer to you:your missing teeth can be replaced. If you are worried about the expense-try going to a dental school-they will generally will give you dental work free or for a small cost because they are at a teaching school.How did you tear the ligaments. Are they on both ankles?The same advice would be to see a specialist. If you can not afford the medical advice, you could see a doctor that will work with you based on your finiaces or you may qualify for medicaid if you have no insurance.You mentioned the fact of crooked fingers resulting from an injury substained from an accident.Believe me not to throw you off, a lot of people are born with crooked fingers, did you get money or health reimbursements as a result of the accident. Now as far as the fissures and cracks, and wrinkly skin on your penis, but sorry guy, in that case, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. it is good that you are seeing a specialist about the cracks and fissures Having a wrinkly penis is no big deal and I think most guys will tell you that.If you are overweight, then do something about it. Proper diet and exercise would be a great help. The physical and emotional situation will improve with exercise. Do you have a primary care doctor? It sounds that you need an extensive physical and lab work. Instead of worrying that you may have diabetes, do something about it, most doctors order lab tests to investigate whatever may be going on inside of your body.Also, because of any limitations that you may be having with your injured ankles and the nerve damage, don't give up. you could obtain an order from your doctor for physical therapy.You say that you are bald, believe me there are other bald people that are quite handsome. I do not believe that anyone woth having is going to tell you that they do not want to be around you because you are bald. You have set your goals. I think that you should set them in order in order not to overwhelm yourself. THERE ARE THINGS that may be done to help yourself. Just try to calm down and work on them. Nobody can work their problems at one time, right away. Something can be done about your problems. Talk with a specialist. Do also seek help from your primary care doctor. If he/she feels that you need to see a specialist about your "physical imperfections" then take the advice and try to accept the help and follow through on the instructions. Your therapist may suggest that you go to a group therapy session. That way you could talk woth others and listen to them, they will understand. LISTEN, please do not do what you are doing to yourself to others. How can you help yourself to help yourself if you are already saying that your partner would have to be attractive. Some people are cruel about how we look, unfortunately. Most of all the rest of us are not cruel and we accept people mostly on how they treat us and others. Everything comes with time. You may not be perfectly:"normal" but no one else is too. Take care of your physical problems and definitely work on the emotional ones. I think that if you do, you will be much happier and more satisfied with your life.

i see that u are just looking at your faults, and your looks. in order to have a lover in your life and have a long term relationship with her , is to accept who u are , love yourself , no matter what faults u have , life is not perfect,u are not perfect, u have to understand relationship does not base on looks , but personality, u have a nice personality, when u meet that special girl , she will too have the personality that u will love , and marry , have kids and be happy. don't worry how u looks and how a person would at u, just worry about how they will love and treat u right , with respect.

ive accepted everything.
i have 3 large scars on my arm from surgeries, stitch marks in my forehead from my youth, crooked fingers NATURALLY...
theres really nothing you can probably do about it, so you deal.