Why am I so emotional, I'm a guy and I feel like I'm overly emo. too much estrogen?

I was diagnosed with manic-depression (bipolar disorder) 2 years ago and have been taking medication for it. I've always been really emotional and all that. I feel like more of a girl, not to sound rude, than a guy. I mostly have friends who are all girls and the guy friends I have, I don't even hang out with.

As a kid and until now, I've been raised by my mom only (I guess my stepdad too). My parents divorced when I was 7. I just feel pretty insecure and self-conscious about this. I think I have a low testosterone count in my blood, I'm 18 and I don't have facial hair yet too ( I know that doesn't really mean anything, but still).

I would like to get a test for this, but thats embarrassing and how do I explain it to my piece of sh*t doctor who probably wouldn't let me get it??

Please give me mature and "unrude" comments..thanks>>>>

thanks for the advice, thats really helpful. i've had this doctor since i was born but he's been not that great, didnt want to give me a note for my absence for gym in high school and i failed, but thats besides the point.
I appreciate the advice, I'll keep those things in mind and make an appointment with another doc...
thanks :\

The lack of facial hair is due to low testosterone. You should have been put on hormone therapy for that. I doubt you have high levels of estrogen. You are probablly just more intact with your feelings and willing to share. Most guys are too macho to even admit they have emotions, much less being overly emotional. If your really concerned, maybe you should talk to a councelor and see wht they suggest.

Well the first thing to do is change your doctor, cos you dont need that kind of doctor. You need one that will help you. And remember your still young and some guys dont get much facial hair till their a bit older
Your entitled to any test if you ask for it and i hope that they will do it for you.
And theres nothing wrong with being emotional, it just shows me that your a decent MAN who has feelings like the rest of us. Just remember your health comes first so make that appointment with a NEW doctor today and good luck to you

Don't worry - sensitivity is not caused by a low level of testosterone or high level of estrogen. My fiance - who is extremely masculine - is also extremely sensitive. When we hear a sad story in the news - his eyes often fill with tears. I think it is a wonderful trait - he is kind, understanding and sympathetic.

You are still in your teens - which is a difficult time for anyone. As far as facial hair - you are still young. And having very little may just be hereditary.

Hope that I was able to offer you some help. Hang in there! :)

It is okay to be emotional . It is not okay to have false expectations for love and life. Stay away from people who are not able to be emotional.

Find a new doctor ASAP, preferably one who is used to dealing with gender issues.

Get some information, especially on whether the med for bi-polar is working. and get info from the doc on whether your hormone imbalance is correctable, or whatever.

YOU NEED INFORMATION.

Blokes have feelings too! Nothing wrong with this mate.
If you want your hormones checked its really easy, just ask a doctor they ain't all that bad.

Don't be embarrassed trust me they have heard it all before and your story isn't even unusual. Have you considered that you may be in a depressed phase of your bipolar disorder? This could explain the hyper- emotional state. See a doctor/ counsellor about this and have a chat, this way you have at least told someone about it.

At 18 you doubt alot but trust me you are not alone. Boys are aised from a young age to "tough it out" and "not talk about feelings" or "act like a girl." But you know what you should be more intouch with your emotions and people will respect for for it. It is also far more healthy for your mind in the short term and long term. As for the facial hair, does it really matter- think about how much you save on shaving gear!

Chris- Registered Nurse and Qualified counsellor

I think you're much more normal than you think. I assume you're American, which means that you probably feel some pressure to be a big, tough guy all the time. Truth is, many men are quite emotional, but they work hard to hide it so that they can keep up the macho image that society expects.

How was it for you growing up? Was your stepdad good to you? Have you thought about why you feel insecure about your parents divorce when you were young? If you still hurt deep inside from the divorce, do yourself a favor and talk to a professional about it. It probably won't take so many visits to clear the air about your feelings, because you're ahead of the game by already being in touch with your feelings.

I have a friend who is a psychologist, and she told me about a very interesting conference she attended, which had to do with a study that was done concerning "classic" male and female charateristics. On a sliding scale between 1-10 (1 being the LEAST female or male and 10 being the MOST male or female), most people display some degree of both male and female charateristics. Interestingly, the most well-liked, well-balanced and happy people displayed a nearly 50/50 blend of male AND female traits, whereas people who displayed "pure" male or female traits (1 or 10 on the scale)
were found to be the most annoying people to be around, and therefore had trouble keeping long-term relationships and even jobs!

My own husband's personality characteristics is a perfect blend of male and female traits. He is definately a man, but he's sensitive, "soft", kind, caring, understanding, gentle, and thoughtful - all of which are considered female traits. He has many good friends of both sexes, but he more drawn to females, because he appreciates their natural caring nature.

There's probably nothing wrong with you, physically. You are probably just a "late bloomer". The beard and the raging sex-drive will come when your body is ready for it. But, to ease your mind, go ahead and get tested. As for your worthless doctor, you owe it to yourself to get a new one. If your choice of doctors is limited (like from HMO insurance), then save up your money and pay for a complete physical - including hormone testing - yourself.

Best of luck, and Happy holidays!

You're emotional because you're bipolar. It's as simple as that. Bipolar people, imo, have the deepest of feelings.

In addition, you are young and still maturing. Your body is changing.

This is what I recommend, imo, talk to your psychiatrist about your emotional feelings. Perhaps, your medication will be adjusted, changed, or another med added.

Also have your hormones checked out. I strongly recommend you go directly to an endocrinologist as opposed to having your family doc doing a couple of hormone levels. (Although it doesn't hurt to get a physical from your regular doc too.)

The endocrinologist is thorough. He checks for testosterone levels in addition to thyroid, and other hormones. If a hormone is off-balance, it's an easy fix - you get a supplement and everything gets back to normal.

My son didn't get facial hair until he was finished with high school btw.

If I can be of any other help, let me know. Hang in there. And go see those docs.