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i have a 2 month old by this guy. he's never seen her becuz i found out what type of person he is. he doesn't help me and he's made it plain he's not. i've got a restraining order on him for domestic violence and i have a no contact order on his step mom. he has a girl he's going to marry. but when he sees me with a guy friend he flips out! and that stupid gf of his does too. they say i don't have a right to be with someone else. i mean that's crazy. me and him never really dated, we were just friends with benefits, ya'll know what i mean. he's cursed me over his gf, and so has his stepmom, becuz i don't like her and i wouldn't let her be involved with my pregnancy. i don't want anything to do with any of them and they know that. but he goes insane seeing me with someone else, why? cuz he don't want me for a gf, and i don't want him! but i don't understand why he's like that and why his gf gets mad as well. thankyou for your answer. You have every right in the world to want to be with someone else. There is absolutely no reason at all why you shouldn't be. If he has a problem with you having a boyfriend then that is his problem and needs to get used to the idea of there being a step daddy eventually. You need to get the hell out from there honestly and move on with your life. Move somewhere that you can be safe away from them. I know that he is the father and that she is the grandmother but, YOU are the MOTHER. That is #1 in all scenarios. Your safety and the babies safety comes first in all this. Take YOUR child and get the hell outta dodge. You need a restraining order with a longer distance. How does he ever know you have a boyfriend without violating the restraining order? They are control freaks and you need to leave them alone. My answer to you is...try to remember to make sure the next guy you have sex with uses a condom. You should be on the pill..to do your part of not having any more babies.. It is time to move. This one is so far removed from civilized life that he affects those around him. Incuding you. |
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