Divorce help?

im a teenage girl and my parents are divorced, my dad cheated on my mom while they were still married, and thats why they got divorced, but im nervous my mom will be mad when she finds out that he is dating her, and how should i tell her that they are dating...like i am always nervous when my dad and i go somewhere with her because im afraud that someone will see us and then tell me mom and then she will be mad that i didnt tell her...what should i do...please help

It's not your responsibility to tell her. Look your dad's a creep for busting up the family but I'm sure he had his reasons. Don't get into the middle of your parents problems. Just try and stay focused and get on with your teenage life. It isn't the end of the world. My parents divorced when I was in my twenties so i know how hard it can be. If you are not comfortable being around when his girlfriend is around then just tell your dad. Say DAD I WISH YOU WOULD RESPECT ME AND NOT HAVE HER AROUND WHEN I'M HERE. If he really cares he will take action and stop seeing her while you are around. Just let him know how uncomfortable it makes you feel. Also tell him how it makes you nervous because you don't want to be in the middle of his and your moms divorce. I'm sure he will understand. If not then ask to stay with your mom cuz that means your dad is a creep.

Stay out of it and let them deal with each other. My parents put me in the middle of their problems and it caused me emotional and physical problems. It is unfair for any parent to make their problems their children's problems.

okay first of all..im sorry. because having divorced parents suck. if you dad knows that you know hes dating that girl..talk to him about it. he shouldnt be putting you in that situation AT ALLL. its so wrong and self centered. not that your dad isnt a good person but you know. i would either talk to him about it..even though its going to be hard.. and then .. if you feel okay with it..tell your mom. or dont..save your self the talk and just tell your dad that its making you uncomfortable that your mom doesnt know.