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Is it normal to divorce because you have realized you really don't love your spouse?


Is it normal to divorce because you have realized you really don't love your spouse?

Look marriages go through a lot of different stages trust me i know.....i have been with my spouse for 14 years...in the 14 years there have been times i could not stand the way he looked at me...the way he chewed...but there have been times he has been my best friend my lover....my everything and i do not know what i would do without him...what i am trying to say is when you get married it is normal to go through stages when you are not sure it is a big committment and there have been times i wanted to walk away or he wanted to walk away but we stayed together and i am so glad we did....i suggest some counceling and some time alone....it may not work but it might and it is worth a shot but believe me you are normal but do not throw in the towel without a fight....good luck

i think so

Try to communicate with ur spouse and c what is what.Maybe yall need to start back dating doing some of the things that have made u fall in love with that person.Or is it b/c u have found someone else and that why u no longer are in love with your spouse?

how sad.

yes never stay w/ some1 if u dont love them it is cruel to them and ur self.

yes you are why did you marry them in the first place you have thought about that don't break your spouses heart some people never recover from this type of deception

May I suggest you examine your reasoning for coming to such a drastic conclusion? You just "realized" this?

Have you discussed your feelings with him? Are you just going through one of the stages of marriage? Are you going through any physical or emotional changes?

You really need to be honest with yourself and be fair to him.

Jim DeSantis

You don't say how long you've been married. But since we are suppose to marry for life then you need to try to make it work. Marriage isn't always going to feel like the gooey love we had in the beginning but love has many different feelings. Don't give up on your marriage until you have tried everything else. Talk to him, see a counselor whatever it takes. Good luck.

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