I am hurting all the time, stay tired,irritable,hate sex,hate life ingeneral.?

I hurt in all my joints, I am over weight, I have tried to work a job out of 6 weeks at work I missed 27 days with Bronchitus, my feet and legs hurt so bad I came home in tears everynight, I have degenerative Spinal disc disease, Depression, Anxiety, I am trying to watch my sons 3 children I have them 4 hours a day I used to enjoy them now I don't enjoy nothing. I tried for my disability in 1997 and was denied my husband and I are having problems in our marriage. He had an affair 4 1/2 years ago and got very sick ended up in the Hospital I think he got something from her Because I have been sick ever since he was with her. But he came back asked me to forgive him and stayed with me. I don't know if it was luck or my big mistake.

Darlin, you need to see a doctor -sounds like you need his/her help to help you with your physical and emotional needs. Most everyone suffers in one way or another. The very best to you.

You should try talking to a friend about this situation. I think you are going to a depression.

I am so sorry to hear about your problems. You've really had the deck stacked against you, and your husband doesn't seem to have done much to help.
You need to go back to your doctor and tell him your suspicions about what you may have gotten from your husband. If it is an SDT, it may indeed be exacerbating your already serious problems, but it can be treated and you can be helped. You should insist that your husband be tested as well, just to make sure he isn't spreading it elsewhere.

First of all, you don't quit trying for disability . You get refused 2 times then get a disability lawyer for the third time. It won't cost you anything out of your pocket. Im not heavy but I have Degenerating disc disease, a tumor in my lower back that the roots are attached to a nerve, scoliosis, 2 fractured vertebra, and cirosis of the liver, oh yea arthritis. I've baby sat for my 3 granddaughters for 13 years, my wife helps out, she shattered her left ancle 4 years ago, she got her disability in 2002 I got mine in 97. Stay with it, It will work out.

Your probably depressed.