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When parents have a child that is dying from cancer...and they keep going?


to church and praying for some type of remission.....BUT THEN THE CHILD DIES..Why did God NOT answer their prayers???...I mean they have suffered a lot...one of the worst painful experience as a parent.....Plus how would you move on from that terrible time...when people keep asking you about it???

Sweety, God did answer the prayer! That child is now at home with the LORD GOD! The child is free from all cancer, in the presence of God!

You see, not always are our prayers answered in the way we would like for them to be! This seems to be one of these situations. God knows best and if this child would have suffered tremendously, then would you not say that God was merciful by taking her home? By freeing her from a disease which had ravaged her little body? God does not always work the way we think. Therefore, if much prayer was given...taking this child home, was God's will. When it is God's will...you had better believe that He knew best and did not allow this suffering to go on!

Yes, I imagine the parents are just devastated! The only way to go on...leaning on God! Letting God nurture their hearts. True healing only comes from God and I will be praying for them. I am very sorry they have been through so much!! However, I know God can lift them and carry them through this grief! He will restore joy, when they allow Him too! Until then, my prayers are with them and asking God to nurture them and heal the brokeness.

This is VERY Hard to answer. I just believe that- When it's your time to go- you must go no matter what. I had my Boyfriend pass while we were in High School and I couldn't understand why God would take him- but he saved a lot of people afterwards. A lot of people accepted God into their lives and now every year his fund helps someone go to college for free.

No matter how hard u try to save someone, when it's your time... it just is. Time Heals all. Its going to be hard to move on and everything will remind you of that person- but as years pass everything will clear up and tears will dry.

The child going to live with God was all part of His plan. Although it is painful for the parents and others, God knew from the beginning that this would happens. If the parents don't want to talk about it with others, just say "Sorry, I don't want to talk about it." My friend passed away at a young age and his dad loves talking to my family about the great and not so great times he had with him. It brings back a lot of memories, and sometimes brings tears, but that is part of grieving. Most of the time, the pain will never go away, but you just have to think that you will see him again in heaven.

You see... God does not exist(to me) or if it does it won't do anything else for humans(he already created us). How many children do you think die from cancer everyday? God just can't save everybody, it's the circle of life! I believe it's very hard to accept this but since both parents are still together they should rely on each other, live for each other.
What more can i say, the rest is up to you!

my cousin had the same thing he ended up dieng were he wanted to in mexico but really he did answer to the prayer cause when your in heaven no one there feels pain there better then ever my aunt would cry a lot for him then one day my other cousin had a dream of my cousin saying to tell my aint to stop crying cause hes in a better place.........and for me just keep in mind that the child is in a better place in gods hands

HI!

Deep Question. I can only answer this from experience and my beliefs. I have a brother whose adult son died of cancer. They are Christian and believe in God and prayed and eerything. They have had a hard time, but a deep love foir themselves as a couple and fmaily and have carried on. It is not easy

I also believe we have a God who does not give us things. WE have disease for many reasons...environment, hereditary etc. God
will not give us more than we can handle.

Everything has a reason, we may never know what that reason is, but faith can get you through so of the toughest times. With faith you can be stronger than you think.

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