Malignancy Eating Away Bone on 8 yr old's skull....?

My son is 8 yrs old and just got results from CT Scan in on a soft spot on top of his head. The doctor said it appears to be a malignancy that is deterioating the bone and surgery is needed to remove the bone and replace with a titanium plate. He has a consultation and MRI and Biopsy scheduled on Monday. Is this cancer? Malignant and Benign refer to Tumors and I have always associated a Malignant Tumor with Cancer. I need some qualified help to explain to me what is wrong with him and if there is a chance this or the surgery could be fatal. I am a single mom and need someone to help me be informed so I can be informed when I go into the consultation and to help me make the correct decision on what to do. The only insurance I have is MaineCare (like Medicaid) and am afraid that I will be treated differently. Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!

You need to call the doctor for a definitive diagnosis. However the word 'malignancy' usually means that it is cancer.

Go to all the meetings, have the tests, and biopsy and collect as much information as you can about this disease. I know you are concerned about insurance but most states have a 'Children with Special Needs' program that will cover many of the costs of this illness. Your first concern needs to be your son. But I understand how scared you are right now. If it is cancer than there are treatment options and if you are not satisfied you can ask for a second or third opinion. If possible you should go to a pediatric childrens hospital and your son should be seen by a pediatric oncology team so that his care can be coordinated among the disciplines.

Stay strong.

I don't have any answers for you, but I want you to know I'll be praying for you and your son.

Also, you should not be treated any differently whether you pay cash, have commercial insurance, or have MaineCare. The hospital contracts with the insurance and will get paid regardless, so don't worry about that.

I would suggest, however, that you get a second opinion before you consent to surgery. This is not because I think the first doctor is lying or inept, but a doctor who gives a second opinion is often more willing to give additional information.

Good luck, sweetie.

your son needs an oncologist. get a referral. call the American Cancer Society.