Does anyone have stories of bullying experiences they had or have to help me get through mine?

Does someone have bullying experiences when they were in school and have solutions to help me get through my experience. I'm trying everything but people are just so cruel. I need a lot of help to help myself. Thank you in advance!

I need more information -how old are you - what are you being bullied about? Not that it matters about the bullying party - bullies are bullies but I do need to know how old you are. Most schools have a zero tolerance for bullying but it's hard to talk to the administrators because of retaliation. Please tell your parents and see if they have suggestions for you. People are cruel - if this is just words and not physical involvement, try to think you are better than that and you won't let them bother you.

Don't deal with this on your own if you get to a point where it's causing you to miss school, being late to classes, affecting your grades, etc. Get adult intervention. Your school counsellor, trusted parent, etc. can help you. There are laws to protect you against school bullies and schools must enforce them.

I get teased for my looks, and my height, and I know how cruel they can really be. A guy at our school actaully commited suicide, because he had this thing where he shakes alot and they would tell him to go throw a paper away and laugh at him because it was hard for him to throw it away. He put a gun to his head and pulled it :(. Don't let them get to you hun. They only be cruel to you to make them feel better about themselves. I'm going through the same problem. You could tell someone, teachers principal etc, and they may be able to work something out for you, please cheerup buttercup :) Goodluck <3

learn to stand up for yourself, you can never be afraid of people. I had to learn this on my own. When people know they can control you by putting fear in you, you will naturally become an easy target. Assert yourself by letting people know you are not someone to be messed with. Take a self-defense class or something to boost your confidence. The way you carry yourself will let people know whether or not they should mess with you. If things get serious enough, ask someone that is slightly older than you for help, I wouldn't recommend telling an adult or teacher honestly, because sometimes that only makes things worse, however, if the situation gets really serious or you feel that your life or someone else's is in jeopardy, then seek adult help immediately.

oh my gosh yeah. Especially when i was in middle school! An it was always for dumb stuff to like oooh, why do u have hair on your arms or why this and why that. u see wat i mean? U can e-mail me if u want and i
can share stories of things that have happend to me and seen, and no i ain't some weirdo psycho, freak! Ppl always get picked on a t least once in their lives. If anything u can always change schools! If u have glasses, well then hey, its yuor eyes not theres. Usually ppl pick on ppl bcuz there rude and don't care. If u r a good person u would grow out of that by the time u r like 9 or something. I used to pick on ppl , like llaugh to and stuff, who hasn't? But i realized it was wrong and i never liked it when ppl did it to me, so i stopped and if someone ever called me and said hey look at blah blah blah i would be like oh, yea. And i wouldn't make fun of the
person i would just ignore it or i would be like stop picking on him , u guy sr so mean! I would always be nice to them. And so when they pick on u say something like ....worry about yourself(ves) and not me.
Or mind you rown business. Or who cares? Go do something better with your time."
Say it firm don't be afraid , if u never say anything they will just keep doing it. If they hit u , u can hity back or u can get them in mayor trouble! Don't be scare to stand up for yurself! But avoid hitting at all possible costs. Ignore them that always help but only if they r not hitting u. If they hit u tell the principal or your parents or even both.
Take care of yourself and ignore them , no one is perfect. Don't let tme take adavntge of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! E-mail me if u want and i can tell u more and stuff.
take care.

Most schools have anit bullying policies, but I can tell you from experience it's all bull. My daughter was bullied in school. Two years later, after several conferences and "detention" for the bully, my daughter stood up to her bully. SHe told the other that she was going to kill her. THis girl has told my daughter she was going to kill her, brought a knife to school, showed my daughter her brother's gun when he picked her up one day after school, etc. Detention was all that was done.

I went to the police when the school said they are going to expel my daughter for threatening this bully. I told them there would be hell to pay.

The police intervened, my daughter was NOT expelled, no punishment at all actually. The bully was expelled and when they return if they do it again, they will be out for the rest of the school year and arrested.

Go to an adult. Get your parents in on it. Get your principal in on it. Keep a journal of all that is done and when and what time and who else was around that can be a witness. If it gets severe, the best is to go to the police.

Schools just do NOT enforce their own rules. THey have a Zero Tolerance policy on bullying, but they didn't do a single thing on it.

Keep after the adults and get them on your side. There is no reason for it. You can also call the police and file the report yourself.

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